From birth to adulthood, every child will encounter many puzzles. In addition to the pressure of study, all kinds of "small problems" will always haunt me. Because these questions are always so difficult to say, children are often at a loss, so they read books by themselves and ask their classmates privately. ...
Experts pointed out that sex education can be divided into early childhood (0-6 years old), childhood (7- 10 years old) and adolescence (1-14 years old). It should be said that children should have a clear understanding of their gender at the age of 3, and can clearly identify whether they are boys or girls. 3-7 years old is an important stage to cultivate gender role awareness, and children will further deepen their understanding of gender and gender roles from their daily family life. Before the age of 7, the role of parents is undoubtedly the most important. Parents are the first teachers of children's sex education. Therefore, once children can't get help from their parents, problems will arise.
Early childhood (0-6 years old)
Confused 1: Xiaojun is three years old, smart and lovely, and everyone likes him very much. But one day, Xiaojun asked his mother, "mom, mom, grandma said I picked it up from the garbage." Is this true? " Xiaojun's mother is very embarrassed. She coaxed him and said, "You, grandma, are right. You just picked it up from the garbage. I'll tell you when you get married. "
Confusion 2: 5-year-old Lingling just went to kindergarten. When her father picked her up from kindergarten that day, he found her unhappy. "Dad, why do some children have to stand in the toilet, but we have to squat? I secretly looked at Xiao Ming, but our eyes seemed different. Why? " "When you grow up, you will understand. Also, you should concentrate on going to the toilet in the future and see that other people's children are not good children. "
Childhood (7- 10 years old)
Confusion 3: 8-year-old Liang Liang usually likes to play "play house" with her neighbor Tingting. On this day, the two of them were playing, Liang Liang said "You are my wife" to Tingting, and then dragged Tingting into the "bridal chamber" with dignity. Lying in bed, they didn't know what to do, so Liangliang suddenly leaned in and kissed Tingting. Unexpectedly, Tingting immediately ran out crying and told Liangliang's mother to bully her. As a result, Liangliang was slapped by her mother.
Problem 4: Xiao Di, a fourth-grade student, often sees men and women hugging and kissing on TV. But every time he watches it with his parents, as long as there is a scene of two people hugging, his mother will cover his eyes and even forgive him. He asked his mother why she wouldn't let him see it. Her mother always scares him: "It's going to be terrible. I'm afraid you'll be afraid." "But when I watch it alone, it's fun and not terrible at all." Xiao Di was puzzled.
Juvenile stage (11-14 years old)
Confusion 5: 1 1 Lily unconsciously finds herself completely different from the boy who lives day and night. For this reason, she felt scared and even shy, but she was afraid to ask her parents. Especially in front of male students, she dare not look up, dare not look directly at each other, dare not hold out her chest, and even prevaricate, as if she had done something wrong. She secretly used tights and corsets to cover up the changes in her chest. Sometimes, I will dress up as a "tomboy" in my clothes, hairstyle and manners.
Puzzle 6: Ajie is a senior one, but recently she feels something is wrong-the original crisp voice seems to be getting thicker, and there is always something sticky on her pants when she gets up in the morning. "Am I ill? Why is it like a different person? " When the boys are together, they whisper that this shows that Ajie has begun to develop. But what is development? What will happen? Every time Ajie asks Dad, Dad always says, "You are already a man, and then you will understand."
Puzzle 7: Jia Jia suddenly felt uncomfortable in physical education class and went to the clinic with the help of several female students. After examination, the doctor found that Jia Jia was bleeding constantly and told her that it was menstruation. She also said that this is a normal phenomenon, indicating that she has bid farewell to her childhood and grown up. But when Jia Jia saw so much menstrual blood, he felt horrible and disgusting: "This has been bleeding, and people are not dead?"
Other stages (15- 18 years old)
Problem 8: Yang Yang, a junior high school student, found herself inexplicably curious about girls, and other boys felt the same way. As a result, people began to collect cartoons and magazines with pornographic content everywhere, secretly exchange them, and began to have a vague understanding. Once I overheard someone selling porn outside. Yang Yang went to buy some, but her mother found out before she had a chance to see them. Mother not only confiscated the disc, but also gave him a good lesson. But Yang Yang's mind is always thinking about the discs he hasn't seen.
Confusion 9: Iowa accidentally found condoms in her parents' drawer. She thought it was funny, so she took it to school to show it to her friends. Someone suggested blowing it as a balloon, and it proved effective. "Anyway, we don't know what's the use. Just have fun. " Many students went home and asked their parents if they had condoms, and they were scolded. Finally, an eagle-eyed classmate found a vending machine outside the toilet door. Soon, all the condoms inside were bought by boys.
Confusion 10: Dongdong, a senior one, talked about love with his classmate Xiaojie, but neither of them knew what love should be like, and the knowledge between the two sexes was even less. One day, Dongdong kissed Xiaojie, but after the kiss, they were afraid. "Will I get pregnant like this?" Xiaojie is nervous. "I don't think so. I have no idea. " Dongdong is not sure about this. From then on, Xiaojie was always worried that she would get pregnant. Feeling unwell, she thought she was pregnant and shouldered a mental burden. Since then, her performance has plummeted.