I gained a lot after watching this video. The most important point is the importance of family education. In addition to children's study at school, family is also an important place for growth, which plays an irreplaceable and unparalleled role.
Children's puberty is between the ages of eleven or twelve and seventeen or eighteen. During this period, children are easily controlled by emotional brains. Children in this era have less room to vent. In our time, entertainment was going out with friends to pick something to eat, but going home was faced with cold electronic products.
They are lonely and lack playmates. They are lost because the rare weekend is either in cram school or on the way to cram school. They are confused because they only know how to study and don't know where their sense of value lies.
Therefore, family education played a vital role during this period. We can use the cohesion of the family to make children feel the happiness and warmth of the family. Teach children how to solve difficulties in the face of pressure through preaching; Use the power of family environment to help children develop perseverance and will not be easily overwhelmed by pressure.
With regard to how to protect the family environment, the current family problems are family indifference, family violence and great changes at home. The third point is that the average family will not be satisfied. The first point is the family's indifference, parents' indifference to their children, letting them grow up in a free-range way, making them look free, but no one cares and is indifferent to their grades.
The second point is violent conflict. Too much care for children by parents often backfires. Disagreement leads to conflict. In my opinion, the best way is to communicate more and preach less. Communication is two-way. Both sides can confide their feelings without reservation like intimate friends, while preaching is a unilateral lesson for parents. Children have long known what to know when they grow up, and they are tired of talking too much.