First, the root cause consciousness is not strong. Jackie Chan's family, but parents don't understand, dragons have six levels, and hidden dragons are in the deep. The practice of not using hidden dragons is even more lacking. They think about the flying dragon in the sky, and the result is that Kang Long has regrets; Everyone wants to see a girl become a phoenix, but parents don't know the truth of Bai Fenghuang's nirvana. Hatching a chicken into a nirvana phoenix is the most primitive mistake. As the saying goes, the most fundamental thing in children's education is to "leave roots." Only by letting children's educational roots go deep into fertile soil, watering and fertilizing, loosening the soil and sunshine, and enriching their roots through art, reading, programming and sports, can they wait until they bloom.
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Second, the process consciousness is not strong. No one denies that it takes ten years to plant trees and a hundred years to educate people, but the mentality of "every second counts" highlights the bad mentality of parents in the process of education and training. Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University gave a speech with this mentality. His extreme view is that "Xiong Haizi wants to fight". A school in Zhejiang is also trying to return the ruler to the teacher. On the contrary, a child in rural Jiangsu scored 7 points, and his father bought fireworks worth more than 1000 yuan. The reason is that he only got 0 points in the exam, but the incentive result was 57 points later. A well-known professor doesn't know the educational process as well as a farmer's father. There is no other teaching method except playing. How can education in China not be worrying?
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Third, the sense of value is wrong. Educational achievements are staged, such as early education, preschool education, primary education, junior high school, high school, university education, master's degree and other continuing education. The educational achievements in each stage have irreplaceable value, but parents don't know the value of their children's learning achievements. Shortage and discontent are common. I want to take the exam twice, once, go to Tsinghua, go to Tsinghua to study for a doctorate, and so on. And there is an endless pursuit of educational value. Some arbitrary educational realism views simply don't realize that the ultimate goal of education is to make children do something. Under the strong pressure, some children went to the end of despair.
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In China, it is a serious problem for parents to educate their children. Mainly manifested in: lack of encouragement and praise. Lack of independent personality. Lack of confidence. Lack of love between parents and children. Impose parents' will, etc. Children lack proper physical exercise and most of them are weak. This is a serious problem for the country, society, education and every family. Now be yourself.