How to carry out table education well

Eating is a child's instinct. Different children are different? Eat? . Some children are disgusting when eating: a person is prone on the table, arrogant, and uses chopsticks to pick up vegetables in the basin? Throw it into the river? Chewing? Gourmet? , one side? Talk a lot? , salivate. The appetite of the people who dine with him around him is greatly reduced; Some children ignore others when they see what they like to eat, monopolize, monopolize, monopolize and enjoy? Parents are used to it.

In fact, every child from his dinner table? Eat? You can see the culture and upbringing of the family behind him, as well as everyone's cultivation taste. Of course, this is not improvisation? Performing? It is the result of long-term edification of the family. Today, as parents of children, they may think more about how to increase nutrition for their children and make them eat better and eat more, but rarely consider family education at the dinner table.

At the dinner table, cultivate children's gratitude.

In the school canteen, students are often seen spilling the whole bowl of white rice on the ground and leaving their feet, but they have no intention to cherish it. Every student has read such a poem: it is noon when weeding, and sweat drips down the soil. Who knows that every grain of Chinese food is hard? How do parents cultivate their children's gratitude from an early age? In fact, the dining table is the best classroom.

Parents who attach importance to thanksgiving education for their children will never give up the family education platform at the dinner table. Life is the best textbook. Learn to live, and live to learn. Children who are always grateful will cherish every grain of rice and every leafy vegetable; Children who are always grateful will be satisfied and cherish today's hard-won life. Gratitude is the origin of all morality. Always grateful? We should start with every little thing in life and save every grain.

At the dinner table, cultivate children's civilization? Eat?

At home, eat with parents; In society, have dinner with friends and classmates; If we can develop civilized and elegant dining habits, it is an important prerequisite to ensure that children adapt to social norms, have harmonious interpersonal relationships and succeed in various conditions. If we can form the habit of civilized dining from an early age, it is the most precious intangible asset left by parents to their children, which is eternal and infinite. Beyond wealth, it can't be measured by money.

What good habits should children develop at the dinner table?

1. Before eating, the family should take their places, and the whole family can't move chopsticks until they are seated;

2. Learn the correct way to hold chopsticks and form a habit;

3. During the meal, keep the desktop clean and tidy at any time;

4. chew slowly when eating, and don't talk in your mouth; Eat and drink soup without making any noise;

5. Don't rummage for food in the dish, some dishes use male chopsticks and female spoons; Chopsticks don't pinch food when they touch it;

6. Speak softly while eating;

7. One hand cannot hold two kinds of tableware at the same time;

8. Don't wave tableware at people;

9. Eat three meals regularly and quantitatively, without partial eclipse or overeating, and cherish food without wasting;

10. When you leave the table, you should put away the residue in the bowl, put the chair in the right position, and say goodbye to your deskmate. Enjoy? .

Every little gesture in the process of eating reflects everyone's upbringing. Everyone's? Eat? It's nothing personal. In social situations, eat with friends. Eat? It becomes social etiquette. Civilization? Eat? It should be cultivated from an early age, and parents should first set an example for their children.

At the dinner table, let children learn to share and learn to take responsibility.

A middle school student once wrote a composition, and her topic was:? Mom likes to eat fish heads? . In their family, as long as there is fish on the table, mom eats the fish head and dad eats the fish tail. The middle part naturally belongs to the children. In such a family, because the only child is too prominent? Independent? Words encourage children to eat alone, monopolize and enjoy themselves. In the long run, a culture of parent-child inequality will be formed in the family. At the dinner table, children? I am the center? In the family, it is difficult to realize the material sharing among family members, and it is impossible to get the happiness of spiritual sharing.

Sharing at the dinner table is not only material sharing, but more importantly, it should also advocate spiritual sharing, cultural sharing and learning achievement sharing, which is embodied in: at dinner, family members get together and care about each other's life for one day; Talk about interesting things in life and create a harmonious and relaxed atmosphere at the dinner table; Exchange all kinds of information, what you have seen and heard, what you have learned this day.

Many families call for an hour of dinner every day? Dinner forum? It has become a platform for parents and children to communicate, learn from each other and share together. However, there are also some families who treat their children with food in their mouths and rice bowls in their hands at the beginning of dinner every day? Three classes? :? What's the score in today's Chinese exam? Why did you do so badly in the math exam? The class teacher called to complain again! ? As a parent, take care of the children step by step? Torture? The child desperately resisted self-defense, and suddenly there was thunder and lightning and dark clouds over the dining table? This kind of dinner is good for children? Body? With what? Heart? There are many disadvantages and no benefits.

As every member of the family, he is the master of the family. Both adults and children can share the fruits and happiness in the family and bear the responsibilities and obligations in the family. It may not be trivial for children to undertake the task of washing dishes and sweeping the floor after eating, but it is an important way to cultivate children's sense of family responsibility from an early age.