Lead by example. In the process of children's growth, if parents are different in words and deeds, do not set an example and love to lie, then children will follow their parents' example. Parents are the first teachers of the children. If you can't do it yourself, how can you ask your children? Communicate with children more, interact with children more, increase children's trust in their parents, thus reducing or getting rid of the problem of lying.

Treat people with sincerity, and exchange honesty for honesty.

Treat the child sincerely, let the child feel everyone's sincerity, soften him, and let him know that everyone is good to him. Let children learn to be grateful. Gratitude is always a big theme. Let children learn to be grateful, learn to adjust themselves, learn to grow, and learn to think for others.

Encourage your children to tell the truth.

If a child can lie and run away, it means that he knows his mistake. There is no need to preach over and over again. Imagine that your company made a mistake, and the leader kept saying it and even slapped you. What are you doing? Management? It's no use resisting. The waves are fiercer and the smoke is fiercer. You can't quit. The only thing you can do is run away. The best choice is to lie.

Help children distinguish between reality and imagination?

Not all children will deliberately lie, especially young, imaginative and creative children, who are more likely to lie. Don't make up stories. Children who don't tell the truth are all bad children. Sometimes it is good for children not to tell the truth. For impromptu speech, we should kindly point out the behavior of lying (or making up stories), and hope that he will speak seriously in the future and praise him if he makes progress.

Don't "label" children at will.

Children's lies often do not mean to hurt others. Parents should not easily equate their children's lying behavior with their children's quality. They should not label their children as "liars" and "liars" just because of a lie. Experts ","Bagrand "and other labels. This will not only help children get rid of the problem of lying, but also have a negative impact on their lying behavior, which may make it more difficult for children to lie in the future.

Satisfy children's reasonable demands and wishes?

For example, buy toys, books and markers for children in time. Let the children realize what they need, as long as it is reasonable and the family can do it, they will be satisfied. This can prevent children from taking back other people's things without telling their parents and children because they can't meet their own needs.