The following is a letter from a college student. This is his message to me in my blog: "Hello, Dr. Li Qingguo, I feel that many of your articles are quite good and have benefited a lot." I am a senior student. I've tried sex three times before, but it didn't work. I don't know why. Anyway, I'm pretty devastated. It stands to reason that my body should be healthy, exercise well, and there is no obvious problem in my development. I should be introverted, anxious and cautious, but I'm not sure and feel confused.
I have been paying attention to my morning sickness. I used to have morning sickness, but sometimes I feel less. But I don't know what happened in the last month. I didn't even get up in the morning and I was very nervous. I know this observation may be unscientific. Is there something wrong with my situation and my unsuccessful sexual life several times? Why is Chen Bo so irregular? Please help me untie this knot in your busy schedule. If it's inconvenient, I can go there to see a doctor. Thank you!
Actually, I used to see a doctor in a regular 3A hospital, but I was an intern and didn't have a physical examination. Anyway, I said I was fine. I either don't believe the doctor's level, or I'm a little nervous and wonder if the doctor is too hasty. After all, there are many patients. Let me talk about my situation, which is more objective:
1.23~24 years old, male
2. Testicular penis size, self-observation are relatively normal, normal development, normal secondary sexual characteristics (Adam's apple, beard, pubic hair, armpit hair, scrotal fold).
There is nothing particularly serious about the general health of physical examination. Blood pressure is normal, and there should be no chronic diseases such as diabetes.
4. There is an erection during sexual masturbation, and the degree of erection is good or bad, but it is certain that it can be erected.
5. No surgical history, no special medical history and no special medication history.
I hurt my testicles while playing football, but it's not serious. The pain stopped within a few days and there were basically no inflammatory symptoms.
7. There is some numbness in the left thigh during ejaculation.
8. Chen Bo is particularly irregular. I haven't observed myself for nearly a month, and I'm anxious. This is also the main question I asked you. Some people say it's normal, others say it's not normal. Hey, it's still inconclusive. Can you take a comprehensive look at my situation? ! I know that you are busy. If you read it, can you give me some advice? Do you need to see a doctor? I don't need your diagnosis. If necessary, I will see a doctor. If you think it's really messing around, I won't care, really! What bothers me is mainly the problem of Chen Bo. You can also reply to me in the blog, thank you, thank you. ".
I should concentrate on "study hard and make progress every day", but I can't dwell on myself endlessly, obsess over problems made out of nothing and torture myself. China's education failed because the cramming education only knew that he had passed the exam. Every "training textbook" should have a set of test questions, review guidance and standard answers, so that teachers can "have something to say before the exam". Students just learn by rote and get points. There is no such thing as "reasoning by analogy" or "logical reasoning", and there is no such thing as "bold innovation". I don't understand what the teacher didn't say, and I can't use what I said flexibly. The rest is fooled. It's really sad that they deify the rubbish on the Internet. Those people really scared you. Do you still have the courage or need to live on? There are too many similar situations. Another graduate student engaged in aerospace science and technology used to masturbate five times a day, and never had the problem of backache and leg pain the next day. I feel very good, but occasionally when I read the novel network, an advertisement box about prostatitis pops up, which is quite scary, so I embarked on the tortuous road of "seeking medical advice". I told him straight away that if our astronauts were as obsessed as he was, could our space career have such great achievements?
My answer to a low-level question that is too "not level" is absolutely simple. You're not sick. Don't mess around. The central government has said that it will not toss. If you have nothing to do, why bother yourself. This also answers many similar questions. People who really need help, I will answer. If you don't answer, you don't need to answer
Clinically, it is necessary to distinguish organic, psychological or mixed sexual dysfunction (that is, organic and psychological factors coexist) in order to better help patients overcome sexual difficulties. First of all, you can use the self-answering personality questionnaire, Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Scale and some sexual function tests. Secondly, the most reliable diagnostic method for male erectile dysfunction (ED) is still to measure the swelling or hardness of penis at night. You can also make a preliminary judgment by asking whether the patient has an erection at night or in the morning. If the patient who complains of ed has a sound nocturnal erectile response, it can be identified as psychological ED. Comfort education, psychotherapy and drug-assisted treatment can be given to these patients, so that patients can understand the mechanism of action of drugs and eliminate their concerns about drugs. These measures may improve the sexual function of patients, and patients whose symptoms have not improved can formally receive sexual and drug treatment.
We don't have to pay attention to unmarried young people who report that they don't have erections or morning sickness at night for a week, because ed is unlikely to care about them. They are caused by lack of multi-attribute knowledge, suspicious diseases or inferiority complex. For patients with nocturnal erectile disappearance, it is suggested to consider organic sexual dysfunction, but endocrine, vascular and neurological reasons need further examination.
Now, the click rate of my blog has just exceeded 77 million, ranking 1 12, ranking second in the health category. This is an inspiration to me, indicating that people want to see scientific knowledge about sexual health, which may really help them solve some problems and repay the society selflessly with the knowledge they have learned. This is the attitude of many old scientists and my pursuit. As a writer friend, you have been educated in this field for more than 20 years! Your work is so meaningful! You let people wake up from the instinctive state of being unintelligible, and let them consciously pursue related happiness and realize related happiness! It can be said that without your work, we can only grope in the dark! Rational cognition is really important for obtaining sexual happiness! No matter what others think, I have understood this very clearly under your guidance, and I have gained a wonderful experience that I have never had before! Therefore, human rationality can not only help human beings get rid of the animal kingdom, but also help human beings to overcome and control their instincts and obtain perfect happiness beyond imagination!