1, children's poor grades should admit that there are differences between children.

In fact, middle school children have long understood the importance of learning and the pressure of competition. However, each child's academic performance will always be different because of intellectual factors, the teaching level of the school, his own study habits, learning methods and understanding ability. What parents should do is to understand the situation carefully and listen to their children's explanations, instead of arbitrarily concluding that their children don't study hard or don't study well. It is necessary to analyze and solve the problems encountered in learning with children in a respectful and equal attitude, and help children master appropriate and effective learning methods and set appropriate goals.

2. Give tolerance and encouragement to children when their grades are not good.

Every child has shortcomings, and it is even more impossible for every child to get the first place in the exam. There are always children who will fall behind. When the child didn't get the expected good results in the exam, he was already very sad. At this time, parents should not stimulate their children, but show tolerance and comfort, and never sprinkle a handful of salt on their children's wounds. At the same time, don't forget to say "try again next time" to your child and let him turn his attention to the next opportunity.

3. Parents with poor grades should be given appropriate incentives.

Children need praise and encouragement. If your child's grades have made some slight progress, you must remember to encourage and praise your child. Children can be allowed to put forward their own "reward" methods, even if their requirement is to watch more TV or play more games. Because children work hard and their grades improve, parents will "strengthen" their children's grades through praise, so that the possibility of their future progress will become greater and greater.

Then, help your child set milestones. Having goals will give children a direction to work hard.

4. Parents should correctly guide their children to understand the purpose and significance of learning.

The connotation of "learning" is very extensive. When parents guide their children, they can tell them that no matter what, people still need to learn when they grow up. Therefore, children need to learn it well. It is important to give children a correct orientation. Just tell them "You must study hard now, then you can go to college, and then you can find a good job and get ahead". This is a utilitarian statement, and children may not listen.

Family factors of children's poor grades

1, often accusing children of failure.

For example, two children failed the Chinese exam. Parent A said to the child, "Mom and Dad are very concerned about your Chinese performance. I believe that this exam does not reflect your level. Cheer up, son! "

Parent b said to the child, "how can you be so stupid?" You can't do such a simple topic, and you will definitely not be admitted to the university in the future! "

Parents A convey care and love, while parents B cause anxiety and hatred. The former can stimulate children's enthusiasm for further study and focus on solving problems. The latter will hurt children's enthusiasm and self-confidence.

Children usually fail to live up to the expectations of parents and teachers, and giving them destructive predictions can cause harm.