Your question is very good! Indeed, many parents and teachers now have similar questions about family education, hoping to find the most suitable learning materials and educational methods, cultivate children's habits, enable children to learn actively, grow up healthily and happily, and achieve the goal of improving children's learning interest and comprehensive quality. However, children are children after all, and young children are like a sapling. Without guidance and training, it is easy to stagger and fail. However, every child will always have some shortcomings in personality and behavior, and occasionally make some small mistakes, which will indeed have a certain negative impact on his study and life, not because of different parents' backgrounds or family conditions. In fact, there are many ways to educate him. You need to carefully consider and choose appropriate methods, teaching materials and suggestions. You can also choose to watch a family education video program that suits you, so that it can be effective and effective. After reading the following analysis and recommended video materials, I believe you can get the answers you want from them.

Under the influence of many factors, such as the current social environment, examination-oriented education mode, and acceptance of western open education, our children are like living in a big dye vat, and they are easily infected with some bad habits, such as willfulness, rebellion, dishonesty, addiction to the Internet, fighting, weariness of learning, active class, inattention, inattention, etc., especially among middle school students in infancy and adolescence. The purpose of education is to correct children's wrong outlook on life, values and world outlook, as well as all kinds of wrong behaviors caused by these concepts. Although there are many ways to educate children, some people adopt the education method of tiger mother and wolf father, and even say "win at the starting line" A person's life is actually a marathon running process. Even if you win the starting line, how far you can run, how long you can persist, and who laughs last is often counterproductive. Therefore, the so-called tiger mother education, whether successful or not, is not worth worshipping, learning and imitating, or even being widely promoted. If corporal punishment educates children to beat them, the consequences may be quite serious, and they will retaliate against their elderly parents and grandchildren in the future, so violent education is harmful! On the contrary, it is more important to cultivate children's healthy personality and optimistic spirit. If you want to educate your children fundamentally and cultivate their good interests and habits in study and life, I suggest you make them like Disciples Rules as soon as possible! Sages teach filial piety again and again, trust and love the masses, love benevolence and virtue, and learn to be an official and filial piety. Parents should call on them not to delay their parents' orders and not to be lazy. Parents should respect their parents' responsibilities, inherit winter and be gentle in summer ... (reading more books will definitely improve children's sense of responsibility and inspire their wisdom). You see, this is really a "filial son", the best tutor! How well written! It is catchy, easy to read and teach, and there are many video story teaching materials on the Internet. There are many versions suitable for children at all stages. As a parent, as long as you are willing to encourage your child to watch with you (this is very important, you like to watch with him, children are naturally curious and easily influenced by others), you will definitely make your child like her. If you can work hard in real life and try your best to implement the teaching inside, why not educate your children well?

At the same time, your question involves teenagers' ideological and moral character, behavior language, academic performance and other family education issues, which parents and teachers are very concerned about and eager to solve. Parents' correct educational guidance plays a decisive role in the process of children's healthy growth education. Therefore, in daily family life, parents and children are sincerely recommended to watch the series of documentaries "Sage Education Changing Fate" (also known as Disciples' Discipline), which is a large-scale public welfare forum of excellent China traditional culture education planned and supervised by Chen Dahui. This is a very favorable free network resource about moral education and family education, which can help children feel the truth of life in a happy and grateful atmosphere, help children improve their healthy growth and learning progress, understand why disasters and accidents happen, and avoid disasters. It can prescribe the right medicine for children's various problems and is a good treatment! There must be the answer you need, and it is also a powerful teaching material for our parents and elders to learn. It is indeed a rare classic tutor program! There are many wonderful cases in this program to discuss various ways to solve children's education. It is really the best one-on-one tutor for us and our children, and it is also a very good family education network resource, and it is completely free, which is of great help to the improvement of children's academic performance. In life, children and even adults are prone to various problems, such as lack of perseverance, greed, rebellion and disobedience, internet addiction, puppy love, strong dependence and inattention. These problems can not be fundamentally corrected by some simple methods or measures to become a filial and obedient child, but we need to carry out comprehensive and systematic family education to treat both the symptoms and the root causes. In this film, many experts, teachers and parents speak in person and report to the public with their unique experiences, revealing that parents' educational concepts will directly affect their children's family education. Therefore, it is recommended that parents and children watch together. The family education they received from childhood will affect their children's life, and they will certainly get unexpected gains from it!

There is a classic epigram in the film: people can teach well! Good people are taught, and so are bad people! This shows the importance of family education!

However, at present, we are facing various realities: serious lack of social integrity! Various media exaggerate and mislead, and the environment where children grow up is constantly being destroyed and polluted. It is difficult to do a good job in family education! Parents are getting worse. To tell the truth, many parents don't know how to be parents, so they bring their children into this world and put a lot of educational responsibilities on schools and society. However, parents are children's first teachers, and many growth experiences require parents to set an example. They shirk their responsibilities, how can they educate their children well? Really sad! As children, we often can't understand our parents' thoughts and real experiences, just for our own convenience and enjoyment. To tell the truth, it's a bit of a violation! When we are all parents, we can truly appreciate this feeling, but it is often too late to regret it. Alas ... many so-called generation gaps in our lives are caused by the disjointed and inconsistent education received from generation to generation. Nowadays, too many people are eager for quick success and instant benefit, only paying attention to their own enjoyment and ignoring the feelings of others. You know, all education should start with roots, just like a tree needs roots to grow trunk, branches and leaves, and flourish. If we abandon the fundamental virtue education, everything else will be just castles in the air. I would like to recommend friends who are destined for you. Whether you have seen it or not, please try your best to take time to watch the excellent program of China Traditional Culture Education Forum: "Sage Education Change Destiny" (which can be searched and played on Baidu video or Youku Tudou). I hope everyone who has seen it can get tangible benefits from it and continue to benefit others. Let's work together to create a harmonious social environment.

I hope my answer is helpful and enlightening to you.

Sincerely bless you!