Why do children scold their parents? They all say that children are in a rebellious period, otherwise, as parents of children, they also have the responsibility to shirk. Children will scold their parents, but they have not received timely education since childhood. Part of it may be that children don't grow up with their parents and their feelings are not very good. There will be many contradictions and even fights during the rebellious period. There are also parents working outside the home, and their children are brought up by their grandfathers. This is the sadness and helplessness of this era. How to educate children who scold their parents during the rebellious period?
1. Adults should stop all kinds of behaviors that force children or other adults, including "soft" coercion. For example, you don't have to strongly advise your child how to do it and how often, otherwise you will treat your child in a different way instead of listening to your child's opinions. Everybody needs to calm down. If there is any contradiction, everyone should listen to others' eyes equally. We should tolerate minor problems and gradually cultivate the habit of solving problems through equal consultation.
2. There is no need to scold each other or even have more intense contradictions with children. When children's emotions are aroused to a certain extent by their parents, children will certainly blow themselves up to safeguard their rights and self-esteem, and parents will often fight.
3. Adults should not always say that children are not right here and not very good there, so that children can accumulate their mentality. Adults should be able to get along with rebellious children and learn basic knowledge. Again, adults don't have to be too lenient and too strict with children. We can't condone their unreasonable personal behavior, and we can't always look at the children and interfere too much.
4. Educate your own culture or let your family educate your children. Make sure that all the efforts made by parents are for the development of your child, and expect them to undertake it. Parents should also give their children love, awareness and attention. Don't just label children when they make mistakes.
5. Adults need to pay attention to the forms of solving contradictions. Fairness and democratization should be emphasized in the family, and children should be taught to reason. Everyone should learn the skills of coexistence and not call a spade a spade about everything. Then it is necessary to pay attention to whether there are people with serious compulsive behavior around children, friends or teachers. If so, it is best to do everything possible to protect them.
6. Children must be consulted about what they do. Parents don't have to feel that this is what they should do, they must let their children do it. In the long run, the child's heart will naturally produce rebellious psychology. If the child questions, then parents should study the reasons and why you don't do it.