The contradiction between adult feeling and childish feeling
The outstanding psychological feature of teenagers is the sense of adulthood-thinking that they have matured and grown into an adult. Therefore, in some behavioral activities, thinking understanding, social interaction and other aspects, it shows the demeanor of adults. Psychologically, I long for others to treat him as an adult, respect him and understand him. However, due to the limitation of age, social experience, life experience and knowledge, they tend to be blind in thinking and behavior, easy to do stupid things, and obviously naive.
The contradiction between opening and closing
Teenagers need to communicate with peers, especially with the opposite sex and parents on an equal footing. They are eager for others to open their hearts to each other like themselves. But because everyone's personality and ideas are different, I can't find someone to release this desire, so I have to say it in my diary. The truth written in these diaries, because of self-esteem, does not want to be known by others, so it has formed the ambivalence of wanting to be known by others and being afraid of being known by others.