The most prominent psychological feature of teenagers is their sense of adulthood, which enhances their sense of independence. If they are gradually unwilling to be taken care of or interfered by their parents in life, they will be bored psychologically; When judging the merits of some things, they are unwilling to listen to their parents' opinions and have a strong desire to express their opinions; If you disagree with some traditional and authoritative conclusions, you will often make radical criticisms. However, due to the lack of social experience and life experience, he often runs into a wall and has to look for ways, methods or help from his parents. In addition, he can't be independent economically, and the authoritative role of his parents forces him to rely on his parents.

The contradiction between adult feeling and childish feeling

The outstanding psychological feature of teenagers is the sense of adulthood-thinking that they have matured and grown into an adult. Therefore, in some behavioral activities, thinking understanding, social interaction and other aspects, it shows the demeanor of adults. Psychologically, I long for others to treat him as an adult, respect him and understand him. However, due to the limitation of age, social experience, life experience and knowledge, they tend to be blind in thinking and behavior, easy to do stupid things, and obviously naive.

The contradiction between opening and closing

Teenagers need to communicate with peers, especially with the opposite sex and parents on an equal footing. They are eager for others to open their hearts to each other like themselves. But because everyone's personality and ideas are different, I can't find someone to release this desire, so I have to say it in my diary. The truth written in these diaries, because of self-esteem, does not want to be known by others, so it has formed the ambivalence of wanting to be known by others and being afraid of being known by others.