1. Don't criticize your children in public. If you don't make unforgivable mistakes, criticize the children behind closed doors. Criticizing children in public will hurt their self-esteem and easily lead to their unhealthy psychology of inferiority, timidity and shyness, so it is very necessary to protect their self-esteem.

2. Educate children with what happens every day. When enriching children's thoughts, just pay attention to what happens every day. For example, when children see a bird fall to the ground, parents can tell them to be compassionate and help every animal as much as possible, so that their hearts will be full of love and they will be more active in doing things.

3. Answer your child's questions truthfully. When children ask various questions out of curiosity, parents should not answer them too complicated or too quickly. For example, children will ask, "Where am I from?" At this time, parents should not cheat their children. Tell them truthfully that it is the crystallization of mom and dad's love, and it is the combination of dad's sperm and mom's eggs that makes you. No complicated explanation is needed. If the child asks, it can be said that you will know everything when you grow up.

4. Don't cheat children casually. The child is very simple. In their eyes, parents are heaven and earth, so they trust and rely on their parents from the heart. If even your parents can break their promises, who else in this world will really keep their promises? This will bring a huge crisis of trust to children.

Don't be too strict with children. In our country, it should be nothing new for parents to beat and scold their children, and even they have become accustomed to it, but it does great harm to children. Often beating and scolding children is likely to cause their cruel character, and even their rebellious and lying character.

6. Don't spoil your children too much. Pay attention to the education and restraint of children at all times. You can't spoil your children indefinitely. Children should not be allowed to have food and clothing all day, regardless of any practical problems. Such children tend to lose their thinking ability and even become enterprising.

7. Don't suppress children's ideas. If children have their own ideas, they should be encouraged, not suppressed. For a problem, children can think from their own perspective, so we should let them finish, and then analyze the scientific nature of the ideas together and make a correct judgment.