If you don't beat and scold your child at all, the child may feel that he can do everything and don't understand the importance of the rules, so he will become a willful and unscrupulous person. Such children may break the law and do some immoral things when they grow up, and there is not much way out in life. If parents give him this kind of education, it will inevitably be countered by this kind of education. For example, parents are abused by their children and are not filial by their children. But some children are healthy and confident, because their parents have never beaten them, so if outsiders beat them, they can resist with confidence and be brave, which can help them avoid harm.
If you keep beating and scolding your child, he may feel that his parents don't love him enough, and his heart is distorted. He feels that such a family is not suitable for life, and he wants to run away from home, so the family will also split. Even if the child has been enduring it, his psychology is basically unhealthy, and he may not be cured in this life. But some children, because of the abuse of their parents, have a very good psychological quality since childhood. In the future, when he faces the greatest difficulties in the society, he can still maintain an optimistic mood and a clear head, and then solve the problem well.
Therefore, it is difficult for us to conclude whether it is good or bad to beat and scold children. In fact, there is no correct distinction between beating children and scolding them. Parents should teach students in accordance with their aptitude, and pay attention to the location and intensity of beating and cursing according to their own personality and children's personality. Only by mastering these boundaries reasonably can the education of parents' beating and cursing be effective, and children will not be psychologically distorted by their parents' beating and cursing.
Parents can't beat their children if they want to, and take it out on them. It should be based on the purpose of making them grow up healthily and give them a reason to convince them. Parents also had better not hit their children in front of outsiders. Children's self-esteem can't stand it, and they may resist you on the spot. Don't hit the child in the key parts, which may lead to disability. It is best to gently pinch the child's hand so that the child can remember the lesson and know the mistake.