Sociality refers to a kind of psychological characteristics produced by individuals in the process of mastering social norms, forming social skills and learning social roles. Due to the occurrence and development of this psychological feature, children gradually become social people who can adapt to the living environment, communicate with people around them and exert influence on others with their unique personality.
People's needs are varied. Biological needs refer to some needs of preserving and maintaining biological life and continuing race. Social needs refer to some needs related to people's social life, such as labor needs, communication needs, cognitive needs, aesthetic needs, achievement needs and so on. Social demand is acquired, originated from human social life, belongs to the category of human social history, and changes with different social living conditions. Social needs are also necessary for personal life. If these needs are not met, people will feel anxious and painful. Therefore, the development of human society plays an extremely important role in human survival.
Sociality is the product of interpersonal communication in social life, and people get sociality in communication; Sociality is the content and result of human socialization.
2. What are the factors that affect the social development of preschool children?
The socialization of children is a process in which an individual develops from a natural person into a social person through interaction with the environment in a certain social environment. During this period, the factors affecting children's social development are environment, children's own factors, kindergarten education and so on. , specifically:
1. Environmental factors. This is determined by the natural environment and social environment. The natural environment refers to the region where children are born and is influenced by the natural environment in the process of social development. Social environment: The main factor affecting children's social development is social environment. Including family environment, kindergarten environment, community environment and mass media.
In the family environment, the quality of family material conditions directly affects children's social development; Parent-child relationship affects children's social development, and the relationship between parents and children and the spiritual environment they create have a great influence on children's social development; Different parenting styles in the family have different influences on children's social development. Different parenting styles, such as democracy, autocracy, doting and neglect, have a greater impact on children.
In the kindergarten environment, the physical environment of kindergarten has an influence on children's social development; The spiritual environment of kindergarten is the main factor affecting children's social development. Teachers have a great influence on children's social development; Peer communication also has a great influence on children's social development, mainly in that peer communication can meet children's social needs, affect children's social cognition and social behavior, and help children to re-coordinate their relationship with adults.
As a part of children's living environment, mass media has a unique and important influence on children's social development.
Community environment has an important influence on the development of children's sociality.
2. Children's own factors. The influence of children's temperament on socialization: temperament affects children's socialization cognition and temperament affects children's social interaction. Children's cognitive level also has an impact on socialization, and children's enthusiasm for participation also has an impact on socialization.
3. Kindergarten education factors. Kindergarten education is an important factor affecting children's socialization development. With its good educational conditions and unique advantages, children's socialization can be better developed.
In short, there are many factors that affect children's social development, including family environment, kindergarten education and social environment, and all kinds of influences can only be exerted by children themselves. It can be said that children's social development is the result of many factors, and it is a long and complicated process.
Third, illustrate the influence of family structure on children's social development with examples.
Family structure has a great influence on children's sociality. For example, in single-parent families, children can only live with one of them because their parents are divorced or widowed. In ordinary single-parent families, both father and mother have experienced mental trauma, so they become emotionally unstable and depressed. Children are prone to psychological characteristics such as pessimism, loneliness, indifference, inferiority and many behavioral problems because they can't get the warmth and education of normal families. In some single-parent families, parents are too busy to educate their children because of the pressure of life, which leads to neglect of their children; Others put all their hopes on their children, which leads to over-indulgence or over-control. All these may make children rude, rude, do whatever they want, or naive, timid and neurotic, which may lead to difficulties in adapting to life. Other single-parent families may lack the influence of their father or mother and have problems in gender behavior. After birth, boys and girls will gradually form their own gender behavior patterns by imitating their same-sex elders. In single-parent families such as father and daughter, mother and son, children lack imitators. In the long run, children may form incorrect gender behavior: girls are masculine and boys are feminine. There are also some studies that show that boys who lost their fathers in their early years are highly dependent, lack determination and have more verbal attacks; Girls, on the other hand, mainly show communication barriers between adolescence and the opposite sex.
Remarried families also have a great influence on children's sociality. In such a family structure, because only the father or mother has a relationship with the child, the interpersonal relationship is more complicated, especially the relationship between stepparents and stepchildren is not easy to handle. If you get along well, there will be no adverse effects on your children; If you don't get along well, family conflicts may affect your child's understanding and judgment of interpersonal relationships, which may easily lead to irritability, lying, moodiness, nervousness and anxiety, and affect your child's social life in the future.
Fourthly, according to the educational content given below, choose the appropriate activity mode and set the specific objectives of the activity.
1. Guide children to understand that honesty is a "wolf" story.
2. Know your parents and their jobs.
3. Know the basic norms that public places should abide by.
4. Understand the labor of people who serve children, and know how to respect children and respect their labor. Don't be afraid of difficulties, and insist on doing what you can.
5. Understand that water is a valuable non-renewable resource and save water.
6. Know how to do your own thing, don't rely on it, and don't bother others.
7. Know your figure and gender and make a preliminary evaluation of yourself; Cultivate the awareness of caring for the environment.
Please design your writing according to your own teaching situation.
5. Please analyze the influence of the following fairy tales or folk stories on children's social education.
1. A child with an empty flowerpot-the story of Jin Song.
2. the wolf is coming
3. Lamb crossing the bridge
4. Crow and Fox
Reference answer:
1. Jin Song? Honesty is a virtue of human beings, and honesty is the most beautiful flower in the world. Only Jin Song can inherit the king. Jin Song honestly planted the most beautiful flowers in the world, which he deserved.
When the wolf comes, you can teach children not to lie in life, but to be honest. Only honesty will have a good return. Once dishonesty, twice dishonesty will make others distrust you more and more.
3. Lambs cross the bridge-children can get education from learning and understand that mutual humility is also a virtue.
It tells the story that the fox cheated the crow's mouth with flattery, which shows that it is easy to be deceived when listening to flattery. The story is short and interesting. Through three dialogues, the fox's cunning and the crow's credulity are vividly displayed.