1. Let children know the means of bad people. He/she is in trouble (such as losing something) and needs your help; He/she is a good friend of your parents or other family members, and they ask him/her to help you (such as taking you home); His/her child is about your age and wants to play with you.
2. Explain this to your children.
When children are in trouble, adults will never ask him for help. Mom and dad won't easily let outsiders pick you up or take a message. Therefore, when a stranger asks you to help him/her or let you go with him/her, don't believe it easily.
Prevention 1: abduction and deception
3. Teach children these strategies
Don't talk to strangers: don't eat things given by strangers, don't accept small gifts; Never judge by appearances. A bad person may sometimes be an aunt who looks kind. Don't think being a "good boy" means helping everyone; Teach children how to refuse strangers, such as "where is my father" and "I'm leaving, and my mother is urging me". Once the situation is wrong, call the police uncle or someone in uniform around you.
Prevention 2: Physical attack
1. Let children know the means of bad people. They will casually look at and touch some parts of our bodies: they will say good things or force us to take off our clothes or pants; They will also take off their body parts and expose them; As long as it makes us feel uncomfortable, such as touching, hugging and kissing, we must boldly refuse.
2. Explain to the child that the place covered by underwear is the "private parts" of the body, and others can't see or touch it.
Bathing or going to the toilet is a good time for sex education. Parents can take the opportunity to wash all parts of their children's bodies in the shower and wittily name each body organ, especially not to avoid sex organs. In this way, children can feel that sexual organs are as natural and beautiful as other parts of the body from an early age, and they are more willing to accept and care for their whole body.
3. Teach children these strategies and tell them that no matter whether you are a boy or a girl, others can't look at and touch the covered part of your underwear; Others can't force you to see these parts of them; You can refuse any physical contact that makes you uncomfortable. number
It is "disobedient"; Bad people will let you keep a secret, but you must tell your parents at the first time; If you meet such people and things, you are not wrong.
Prevention 3: school bullying and violence
1. Let children know how to bully others. They always aim at those children who are unsociable, have different appearances, or have weak personalities. He/she will maliciously rob and destroy other people's clothes, toys, books and other things; He/she will imitate violence in movies to pick things up or solve contradictions; Small groups and isolated behaviors in the class; Call names or nicknames, such as verbal attacks on black and fat children.
2. Explain this to your child. Although most children are friendly, we will meet some people who are unwilling to be friends with us. They may be tall and strong boys or beautiful girls who "lead" a small group. They may not fight or grab things, but they may disrespect you or force you to do things you don't want to do.
Prevention 3: school bullying and violence
3. Teach children these strategies
Exercise, including physical coordination and flexibility, and teach children some basic self-defense methods; Psychological strength, give children more positive comments, so that children are strong inside; Cultivate children's social skills, cheerful, bold, supercilious; Maintain a smooth parent-child relationship with children, so that children are willing to open their hearts to their parents; If necessary, "walking is the best policy", and in case of emergency, we should also fight back moderately; Tell teachers and parents at the first time; Tell your children not to be bullies or follow bullies.