According to the man, he found a chat record with the dean in his wife's mobile phone, which confirmed their extramarital affairs. The man said that he was very angry and sad about this, and he also hoped to attract the attention of the society and prevent more families from suffering such harm.
Once this news was exposed, it immediately caused widespread concern and heated discussion. Many netizens have left messages, strongly condemning extramarital affairs and calling on relevant departments to strengthen the protection and maintenance of marriage and family.
The universities involved also quickly responded to this matter, saying that a special investigation team has been set up to investigate the teachers and deans involved and will deal with them accordingly according to the investigation results. At the same time, colleges and universities also indicated that they would strengthen the education and management of teachers and students and maintain a good campus atmosphere.
How should we deal with such an incident? Below, the author will introduce some operation steps and suggestions for everyone.
First, keep calm and deal with it rationally.
When we encounter the dilemma of marital infidelity, we are often emotional and difficult to deal with the problem calmly. So try to stay calm and deal with the problem rationally. You can talk to some friends or professional counselors to release your emotions, and you can also get some professional advice and help.
Second, seek legal aid.
If it involves marriage disputes and property division, you can seek legal aid to understand your rights and obligations and safeguard your legitimate rights and interests. At the same time, disputes can also be resolved through legal means to avoid falling into deeper difficulties.
Third, consult with those involved.
If the people involved can recognize their mistakes and are willing to take the initiative to take responsibility, and are willing to negotiate with us to solve them, they can also consider adopting a negotiation solution. We can reach a mutually acceptable solution through family meetings or consultation with professional mediation agencies to avoid escalation of contradictions and legal disputes.
Fourth, strengthen family education and self-cultivation.
There are many reasons for marital infidelity. Besides external factors, our own problems are also very important. Therefore, it is necessary to strengthen family education and self-cultivation, improve moral quality and psychological quality, enhance self-control and self-restraint ability, and avoid falling into the predicament of cheating in marriage.
In today's increasingly open society, the problem of marital infidelity is becoming more and more common. We should be aware of the seriousness of this problem and take active measures and methods to prevent and deal with such problems. At the same time, it also calls on all sectors of society to strengthen the protection and maintenance of marriage and family, and create a harmonious and happy living environment for each family.
The man exposed his wife's infidelity to the 38-year-old dean, which triggered a heated discussion, and the colleges involved responded to the investigation. We should keep calm, deal with problems rationally, seek legal aid, consult with the parties, strengthen family education and self-cultivation and jointly safeguard the stability and happiness of marriage and family.