2. Learn to refuse what you don't want to do, even if that person is a teacher. Children should learn to refuse from an early age. Learning to refuse can not only protect yourself, but also refuse unnecessary troubles. A good-natured and likable child has never learned to refuse others since he was a child, and what he finally gets is thankless. People are bullies. Don't refuse other people's demands, which will easily give people a feeling of being bullied. Over time, they became soft persimmons that everyone thought were easy to pinch. In the end, I always get hurt and my mood is easily affected. They are unhappy all day.
Don't be afraid of socializing, and don't care too much about your classmates' previous feelings. Parents all know that few students' feelings really last until the end, and the interest relationship between adults is more lasting than feelings. There is a saying that it is enough for a person to have a confidant, and it is impossible for everyone to like it. Therefore, we should teach children not to care too much about what others think of them, not to be afraid to get along with classmates, and not to be afraid to offend others. Just say a few words from your classmates and forget it.