How to educate children to respect their parents?
■ Let children know that there are differences between young and old, and respect their parents.
In many families, the relationship between parents and children is not at a reasonable balance point: either too loving or too strict, it is difficult to weigh.
In order for children to learn to honor their parents, we must first know how to respect children. Only by maintaining this balance point in the best position can the relationship between parents and children develop reasonably and steadily. Children should live and study with our help and guidance, instead of being completely controlled by their parents.
Only by giving children proper independent space can they have room for thinking. Otherwise, just following parents' instructions becomes that we should be filial to our children, rather than children taking the initiative to honor their parents.
■ Let children know the hardships and difficulties of parenting.
Most of today's children don't know that their parents work hard to make money, and their parents think their children are too young. It is absolutely impossible to communicate with them about work. So children give money to buy what they want, and reprimand them if they don't want to pay. Such a move is not conducive to maintaining the image of parents, but also makes innocent children become? The victim? .
In order to make children spend more reasonably and let them know that it is hard and not easy to raise children, we should mention our work at an appropriate time and let children know that it is hard to make money. We can't ask our parents for money as soon as we see something we like, or make trouble without buying it. This not only restores the child's right to know, but also allows the child to cherish the existing life and show respect and gratitude to his parents from the heart. In the future, when children see something they like and want to buy, they will think that it is not easy for their parents to make money, and then decide whether to buy it or not.
■ Start from the little things in life and cultivate the habit of filial piety for children.
We train our children to be filial to their parents, just in the hope that they can listen to their parents' teachings, care about their health, share their worries, participate in housework and not add chaos to their parents. To turn these requirements into a habitual behavior in children's daily life, we must start from daily trifles and cultivate children from an early age. For example, children are required to take the initiative to clean up the dishes and chopsticks after meals, and their own small clothes can be washed and their own rooms can be cleaned. Parents should not do everything their children can do, but should give them opportunities to play. Children who exercise regularly will naturally form good habits.
Of course, everything should not be rushed, and it is impossible to cultivate children's good habits overnight. Specific guidance, patient training and enthusiastic encouragement should be given according to children's age and personality characteristics. This not only cultivates children's good habits of doing housework, but also cultivates children's awareness of honoring their parents, killing two birds with one stone. As parents, why not do it?
■ Set an example and set the best example for children.
We have been troubled by children's bad attitude towards ourselves. So, do we have a good attitude towards our elders? Children's good habits are cultivated by us, so who did children learn their bad habits from? The answer is ourselves.
Children's ability to imitate and observe is very strong. What attitude we have towards our elders and what attitude our children have towards us are the most direct influences. For better or worse, we are role models for children.
Therefore, to get along with the elderly more after work, we must first honor our elders. In this way, children will gradually develop a good habit of respecting their elders and honoring their parents in a subtle way.
Ancient times? Little emperor? Filial piety:
In 206 BC, Liu Bang established the Western Han regime. Liu Bang's third son, Liu Heng, who later became Emperor Wen of the Han Dynasty, was a famous dutiful son. Liu Heng is filial to his mother and never neglects her.
Once, his mother was very ill, which worried Liu Heng. His mother was ill for three years and was bedridden. Liu Heng personally boiled pharmaceutical water for her mother and guarded her bedside day and night. Every time I see my mother asleep, I lie by her bed and sleep for a while. Liu Heng decocts medicine for his mother every day. Every time he finishes frying, he always tastes it first to see if the soup is bitter and spicy. He thought it was almost enough and gave it to his mother.
Liu Heng's filial piety to his mother is widely circulated in the ruling and opposition circles. People all praised him as the son of Renxiao. There is a poem that says: benevolence and filial piety are famous in the world, and they are crowned with hundreds of kings. Mother has been ill for three years, so the soup must be tasted first.
This is the most famous of the ancient twenty-four filial piety? Kissing soup? This story. However, we can't find such examples for some only children now. There are countless bad examples. For example, when eating, children love to eat, and the whole family is not allowed to eat. Little emperor? Taste it yourself and enjoy it alone.
After dinner, the children put down the bowl and ran to play, completely ignoring the mess on the dining table, let alone helping their parents clean up the dishes and chopsticks. Parents' concern and meticulous care, only getting children's courses, all of which worry us.
Respect other people's famous sayings
1, respect for life, respect for others and respect for one's own life are companionship in the process of life and a condition of mental health. ? Frome
People who respect others should not talk about themselves. ? The original name of NIZHNI NOVGOROD in Gorky City
3, respect others, in order to make people respect. ? Descartes
Rude nature makes a person rude to others, so he doesn't know the tendency, temperament or status of respecting others. This is a true sign of a village that despises Ye Fu. He doesn't value anything that can make people get along with him gently and make him respect others and get along with others. ? locke
5. A clumsy argument or ordinary observation, if put forward in this way, can gain more honor and attention if a few words of respect for others' opinions are added in front. ? anonymous
6. To respect yourself, we must first respect others. ? anonymous
7. Respect everyone, no matter how humble and ridiculous he is. Remember, everyone lives in the same spirit as you and me. ? Schopenhauer
8. We love each other as equals, because we know each other and respect each other. ? Lev. tolstoy
9. We should either be silent or praise those things that should be respected. ? Nietzsche
10, people who don't respect others don't respect themselves first. ? Dostoevsky
1 1, disrespect for others, first of all, disrespect for yourself. ? surname
12, respect other people's opinions. Never say:? You are wrong. Carnegie
13, people who don't respect others will not respect him. ? Schiller
14. Help others, but give them the highest respect. This is the art of helping others, and it is also a kind sentiment. ? Liu Yong