I took my children to the park on weekends and met a pair of parents with their children at lunch.

In the meantime, the child asked his parents, "Where did I come from?"

The child's parents looked at each other, and the child's father said to the child with the idea of teasing the child: "We have brought you here. When there was a flood that year, you were floating in the basin, and mom and dad just saw it and picked you up. "

The child looked thoughtful after listening.

Ma Le couldn't help laughing. At that time, it was 1202, and parents answered their children's questions like this.

How should parents popularize sex education for their children? Why don't you learn this dad's textbook and answer it!

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Recently, Ma Le watched an Indian drama about sex education, called Sex Education between Father and Son, which scored as high as 9 points in Douban.

As a popular science in children's sex education, this TV series is simply perfect. All the questions about children are mentioned in it.

One: Where am I from?

Whenever a child asks, "Mom and Dad, where am I from?" Many parents will say this:

You picked it up.

You sent it by phone.

These are the answers that parents give their children, and few parents will tell their children the real answers.

One is ashamed to explain, and the other is afraid that the explanation is too abstruse for children to understand.

Faced with this problem, the father in the movie used a very simple metaphor to answer the child's doubts.

A seven-year-old boy asked his father how the child was born.

His father's first reaction was to be at a loss.

He remembered his childhood, but he asked his father where the children came from. His father told him that children are a gift from God.

Now, as a father, he obviously knows how children come. In the face of children's doubts, he did not choose to find excuses to prevaricate his children like his father, but set an example for them.

He took out his mobile phone charger and said to the swollen USB interface at the other end:

Imagine that this is my male organ, and the USB interface of the computer is a female organ. What happens when the two are docked together?

Just as you can transfer files from your mobile phone to your notebook, you can also transfer sperm from a man to a woman, and the process of inserting this USB cable into the USB interface is called sexual behavior.

Then the son asked another question: Did you and your mother accept this process before I was born?

Hearing this, Anand generously admitted, yes. Your mother and I went through this process to get you.

These things happen because of love, and the birth of a child is a symbol and representative of fatherly love and maternal love.

Have to admire, the father's wit, with a data line perfectly answered the century problem, simple and vivid, let the children understand where they came from.

I have to admire this father's wit.

Two: What is masturbation?

If your child asks you, "What is masturbation?"

I believe that most parents are surprised, ashamed and angry. Children ask such questions at an early age.

However, in the TV series, when the 7-year-old boy asked this question, his father gave the child a perfect answer.

Dad asked the child to get a racket, and then gave the child an example: masturbation is like playing with yourself.

For example, "Jack, like Jill, likes playing cricket. He also has a small racket. He is in charge of hitting the ball and Jill is in charge of pitching.

One day, Jill went somewhere and Jack was alone at home. Jack wanted to play cricket by himself, but Jill took it away. What should Jack do if he wants to play ball? He thought of a trick. He can imagine that Jill is around and he is pitching, so that even if Jill is not around, Jack can play as he wants. "

The racket can be assumed to be a male organ. A male organ called penis instead of penis.

Women also have organs called vaginas.

Masturbation is not a bad thing, but it should be done in different places and times, because it involves your privacy, only when you feel it is necessary.

There is no perfunctory, a case tells children what masturbation is and how to correctly understand masturbation.

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Not long ago, I saw such a video on the Internet:

On the high-speed rail, a man held a little girl, kissed and hugged, even lifted the child's clothes and kissed the child's body.

During the period, the man even put his hand into the child's pants.

In this process, the child desperately resisted, however, the man still did not stop his actions.

Although it is a father-daughter relationship, boundaries should be maintained in the parent-child relationship.

There are photos like this:

In a big bed, my father hugged my mother and slept with three daughters, the oldest 12 years old and the youngest 6 years old.

Everyone knows that "women avoid their fathers and children avoid their mothers". When children grow up, parents should learn to keep a sense of boundaries.

According to the statistics of the "girl protection" project, among the 433 cases of sexual assault on girls publicly reported on 20 16, 300 cases were committed by acquaintances, accounting for 69.28% of the total cases, and acquaintances were teachers, neighbors and relatives in descending order.

Sadly, many girls have poor privacy awareness, even if they are sexually assaulted.

It is precisely because of parents' lack of sex education for children that children have poor awareness of privacy prevention, so necessary sex education is a very important thing for children.

In this TV series, I also answered: What is menstruation? What is homosexuality? Dad answered the child's doubts with simple cases.

Don't evade, don't perfunctory, and generously tell children what sex education is.

Mom and dad can take their children to see it together!