Parents should not blame their children. As long as the child has no birth defects, the IQ of children of the same age is comparable. What you think is silly is the cognitive difference of children, and most of the reasons for this difference come from the level of parents. For example, like you, educating children is just this once, so parents should ask themselves everywhere. Of course, your questioning is also a responsible attitude and way. We believe that the influence of family education is very important to children's character and thinking, but what is education in educational institutions and schools? That is the education of cultural quality and thinking angle, more like personality is related to family, and ideological cognition is influenced by family environment. For example, parents love to take their children to travel, and their children are better at handling emergencies and being brave than other children of the same age. These may become what you call stupidity and cleverness! For example, parents love reading, and parents like to discuss social phenomena and problems, then children will have a penetrating perspective and think about the overall situation. These may be what you call stupidity and cleverness! In the recent 20 17, the top liberal arts scholar in Beijing showed many years of thinking and understanding than his peers, but his mental maturity had to be attributed to his family environment, and his parents were diplomats. Growing up in this environment, his thinking is bound to be broader and deeper than his peers. This may also be what you call stupid and smart! Including a lot of social education and school education, the premise comes from family education. Maybe you will screen schools, and when children come home, you will ask about schools. Too many. . . This is a very important educational issue that parents need to pay attention to. If your child is still a child, you should start by reading picture books, such as the crooked rabbit series, and teach slowly. Children won't let you down. The only person who has confidence in children is you. Everyone else is an official, making irresponsible remarks and pointing fingers. It's easy to talk standing up. Only parents can firmly believe in their children. Don't be impatient!