Good family education is very important for children's growth. The basic requirement of family education is to build a good character for children on the basis of love. Therefore, in family education, we should pay attention to let children form habits, and at the same time establish correct values and excellent ideology and morality. How to help children finish it requires us to accumulate knowledge and skills in the practice of educating children. Experience.

Family education should meet the following requirements:

First of all, parents should set an example and give full play to the power of example. For a successful child, parents play a positive role as high as 30%, but for a failed child, parents play a negative role of at least 70%. From birth to adulthood, parents are close relatives and always accompany their children. Everything they say and do will become the standard for children to imitate. If parents ask their children to study hard, be honest and polite, develop good living habits, and at the same time develop bad habits such as playing mobile phones, playing mahjong, smoking and swearing, it will scare my children. How can I help my children live a healthy life? Therefore, parents must set an example and be strict with themselves in order to play a positive role model for their children.

Second, status and mentality are equal.

Children are individuals with independent personality and thoughts. Although it is still very small, the current social environment, the speed of information dissemination, and the diversity of content exposed have already exposed children to many things and ideas earlier than the previous generation. People show the characteristics of maturity and independence earlier. If parents can't communicate with their children in an equal manner and can't give them equal status, but adopt a strong attitude of "from big to small", it is easy to cause children. Aversion and conflict, over time, it is difficult to establish effective communication and mutual trust.

Third, the transmission and cultivation of love.

Love is the psychological basis of filial piety, etiquette, empathy and compassion. Only with enough love can he love others and himself. Love will be reflected in caring for parents and elders, caring for classmates and friends, helping the disadvantaged groups and so on. Only in the right loving environment (not connivance) can children feel people and people. ? The warm and intimate dependence between man and animals and between man and nature can help children build a good psychological foundation.

Fourth, develop the habit of self-discipline.

"Self-discipline is freedom" is the truth. Self-discipline includes many qualities, which are embodied in perseverance, perseverance, goal orientation, self-control, efficient time management, organized planning and independence. Cultivating children's self-discipline ability from an early age and helping them establish personal habits with strong self-control, high efficiency and goals are beneficial to children for life.

Fifth, cultivate the ability to bear hardships.

Everyone will encounter many difficulties, obstacles and setbacks on the road to growth. To realize the value of life, you need to make a lot of efforts, be tough and be able to withstand pressure. Then the ability to endure hardship needs to be cultivated. If a child grows up in a honey pot and has not experienced hardships, it is difficult to suffer setbacks.