As the saying goes, "Young people steal needles and grow up to steal gold." Once the bad habit of stealing is formed, it will have serious consequences for the growth of children. If left unchecked for a long time, he may be cast aside by society when he grows up. Moreover, if parents don't interfere in stealing, it will be difficult for children to correct with the knowledge of distinguishing right from wrong. So as parents, how should we effectively curb children's behavior and educate them?
The father gave a good answer to the child's theft. When he and his child walked out of the supermarket, the father found the child holding a box of chocolates in his hand. He immediately asked the child, "Do we pay?" The child replied, "No."
? At this time, my father didn't think it was a trivial matter. Instead, he asked the child to return it in front of everyone. The child thought it was just a trivial matter, so he took the chocolate and prepared to put it back on the shelf.
? But in his father's view, this is stealing, not just taking the chocolate back to its original position and continuing to let him give it to the waiter.
? At this time, the child has realized his mistake. Giving the chocolate to the waiter means that a third person will know about it and his behavior will be exposed to others. He felt afraid and shy. Finally, his father insisted on accompanying him to return the chocolate to the waiter.
Sometimes it's the little things that affect our lives. The father grasped this little thing and taught the child a vivid lesson. I think children will remember it for a long time.
If the father in the video wants to protect the child's self-esteem, or thinks it is shameful or humiliating to expose the child's theft, he will pay for the child's chocolate and pay for what the child takes away. The child's heart will not arouse vigilance, and it may not be chocolate next time, or it may try to take something once, twice or many times without the permission of others without parents.
? Parents are children's best teachers, and children are parents' mirrors.
? To cultivate children, we must first teach them to be human beings and help them establish correct values and outlook on life. Secondly, learn more culture and master more skills.
? The only American president who was born as an actor was Reagan. When Reagan was very young, a decision made by his father had a profound influence on him.
1920, Reagan 1 1 year. He and his friends are playing football in the yard. Accidentally broke the glass window of the house. Need to pay 65438 yuan +02.5. Hearing this number, he immediately ran home, hoping that his father could help him solve it. But his father didn't do what he wanted. "I won't give it back to you. What you have to do now is to apologize to him and then find a way to pay back the money. " Reagan was immediately deceived. "Want me to pay back the money? How can I have so much money? " I can lend it to you first, but you must pay it back to me after one year. His father's stern answer gave him no hope. He can only make money by working. After half a year, he finally returned the money to his father through his own efforts. Later, Reagan became the president of the United States. Every time he recalls this incident, he will say, "I took responsibility through my own labor, which made me understand what responsibility is."
? Although 12.5 dollars is easy for Reagan's father to take out to solve Reagan's problems, can paying money really solve the children's problems? Reagan's father just took this opportunity to educate Reagan about responsibility. This played an important guiding role in his later becoming * * *.
Jenny alimu said: it is not terrible for children to have shortcomings. What is terrible is that parents, as the leaders of their children's lives, lack correct family values and educational methods.
I hope every parent can guide their children in the right way when they make mistakes, and take this opportunity to cultivate their correct values of life. Teaching children means not teaching in the future, and caring for children means leaving them alone in the future. Of course, it is more important to set an example by yourself.