It is not easy to raise a child, and it is even more difficult to educate a child. Nowadays, children are not allowed to beat and scold, and education should pay more attention to methods. You can't hit too hard or praise too much. So how can we praise children correctly? Share some good methods with you.

1 Pay more attention to the process than the result. There are always good and bad results, but the process is a kind of growth. When parents do something for their children, even if everyone around them praises him for being smart and capable, you can tell him that your baby's success today is due to your hard work, not your cleverness. I believe that children will be happier after listening.

2 Affirm the progress of children. You can compare it with your usual behavior, for example, children want to help you clean up the housework and clean up. We can't joke that the baby is so abnormal today, can we? The sun rises in the west? Such irony can't simply praise him as great, but it can be said in a certain tone: the baby now knows to help his mother actively, so he cleans up by himself, which is great! Of course, progress is more useful than praise.

3 the influence of affirmation on others. Children are more likely to play with each other. When a child does something to help others, we should also affirm his performance in time. For example, the baby set a good example before, and now the younger brothers and sisters will share it, so sometimes doing one thing well by yourself will also bring good influence to others.

4 describe more details. For example, when a child sings, he can't simply praise his progress, or praise him for being very good and great. You can try to describe it from some details. For example, today's babies sing and enunciate more clearly, have a better grasp of melody and have a more standard posture. I believe that children will be much happier after listening to these details.

5 guide children to think. Although praise is to encourage children to make progress, we should also learn to guide children to think in a good direction and let them know that paying may not necessarily lead to good results, but good results must be paid and worked hard. In the process of affirming praise, you can ask the child appropriately and let him express his thoughts.

In short, there are many ways and skills to praise children correctly, but generally speaking, if you master the above points, you will get twice the result with half the effort, communicate with children more, think and communicate from the perspective of children, and praise will be much better psychologically than materially.