Sharing the family education experience of excellent parents, I believe that the greatest wish of parents in the world is to "look forward to their children's success", but the most troublesome thing for parents is the education of their children. The following is the experience sharing of excellent parents' family education. Welcome to read.
Experience sharing of excellent parents' family education 1 First, establish a correct concept of educating children.
In the process of children's education and growth, teach them to learn to be human and do things, so that they can be honest and upright, care about others, put themselves in their shoes, and be a self-respecting, self-loving, confident and self-reliant person. Encourage and support them to participate in some school activities and social activities to promote the healthy development of children's body and mind. I remember that when children first started kindergarten, the school often held some parent-child sports meetings or some extracurricular activities, and I would enthusiastically sign them up and set a good example for them. Set a benchmark for children from all aspects and be a mirror. The most intuitive thing for a daughter to treat failure correctly is composition. She participated in several papers and didn't win the prize. Later, she told me that she wouldn't write because she couldn't win the prize anyway. At this time, I will persuade her. Don't look at the first prize winner. You don't know how many failures people have experienced before winning the prize. Everyone is like this. You have only experienced several failures. What is this? The person who won the first prize may have failed dozens of times before! After listening to my explanation, my daughter's heart was solved.
Second, create a relaxed and comfortable family environment.
Create a warm and harmonious family environment, strive to make children grow up healthily in happiness, and create a harmonious family atmosphere for children with their families. Therefore, our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well with our neighbors, so that children can feel deep affection and love all the time. If there is anything to discuss together, the husband and wife will have the same educational concept for their children.
Third, treat children fairly.
There are two children in my family, but I always have a flat bowl of water and never take sides with anyone. I will praise my children more and criticize them less, because praise will give them a certain degree of self-confidence before they are willing to learn. Pay more attention to learning content and actual progress process. Help children to establish a sense of responsibility, let them make their own beds, organize bookshelves and do their duty. Make study rules, such as finishing homework before going out; Do not watch TV from Monday to Friday; Homework from Monday to Thursday must be finished before 8 pm ... I focus on educating my children to become human. First of all, filial piety of all virtues comes first. Of all human qualities, filial piety is the first, because without the support of parents, there would be no us at this moment. Therefore, we should have filial piety, which is the basic principle of being a man, and carry it out in every bit of life, such as carrying water, serving food and giving up our seats.
Fourth, the problem of home-school cooperation.
Soviet educator Homlinski once said; "Social education begins with family education. Families are like the roots of plants. Roots and seedlings can thrive and blossom. Good school education is based on good family education. " Family education is the basic cell of education, and parents are children's first teachers. For six years, I have been cooperating with the teacher to supervise and check the children's daily homework, and I will sign it every time after checking. There is a saying that we can't grasp the size of the wind, but we can adjust the direction of the sail. The children are still young and don't know which harbor to sail to. We should be parents. We should be a good helmsman, master the direction for children, develop good study habits and living habits, and let children sail to the ideal harbor! Therefore, I will actively cooperate with the education of school teachers, achieve tacit cooperation, co-education between home and school, and make common progress with the school!
Experience sharing of excellent parents' family education 2 1. Develop good study habits and cultivate independent ability.
Listen carefully in class at school, take notes in class, consolidate what you have learned after class, and ask the teacher in time if you don't understand. When you come home from school, you should finish your homework on time and never delay. Preview tomorrow's new lesson. Do your own thing at home and help others. For example, "wash socks, underwear, etc." Help parents do housework, "mop the floor, wipe the table, serve meals, take out the garbage, etc." Let them master the skills of life and face the society independently when they grow up.
Second, set an example and set a good example for children.
Parents are the best teachers for children. Everything you say and do is in the eyes of children. It is like a mirror, shining on children. I remember one time, he and his brother were doing their homework and I was cooking in the kitchen. My brother can't do a math application problem. Let me help him explain it. As I was busy cooking and didn't have time to teach him, I asked his brother to help him, but after a while, I heard a voice. I hurried into the house and saw my brother loudly say to my brother; "You don't even know such a simple question. I have taught it several times. " The younger brother said aggrieved, "I still don't understand. Why are you still so angry?" I went up to my brother and said, "He doesn't understand. You have to teach him slowly. You can't be so angry. " He casually said to me; "Didn't you give it to me like this before? This is how I came over. " After listening to this sentence, I was speechless and ashamed! At that time, I secretly made up my mind: I can't do this to my children anymore. From then on, whenever he doesn't understand anything, I will control my temper, patiently explain it to him and set a good example for him. The healthy growth of children can not be separated from their parents' efforts. Everything you say and do in life will affect their life. Therefore, it is particularly important to lead by example.
Third, cultivate children's habit of reading after class. Read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road.
Tired of reading, easy to write. Extracurricular reading is particularly important for children's writing. However, it is not enough to rely only on what teachers have learned in class. We must enrich ourselves with extracurricular knowledge. At first, he refused to read, saying it was boring. Until a composition stumped him, a 450-word composition only wrote more than 200 words, and he stopped writing. At that time, he deducted more than ten points from his composition and six points from his basic questions. He felt very sorry, so I told him that you read too little and have little knowledge, so there is nothing to write about. You should read more books. Reading can learn from other people's literary talents to improve yourself. Over time, the knowledge stored in the brain will be slowly released and applied. The key to reading extracurricular books is persistence and perseverance, and you will get as much as you pay. I bought books for him from the beginning, and now he has asked me to buy them for him. I think he should have tasted the sweetness of reading!
Fourth, pay attention to children's physical and mental health and make friends with children.
It is very important for children to study, and physical and mental health is also very important. I have always been satisfied with my child's academic performance, but his strong personality has invisibly increased his pressure. It was a math exam. Before the exam, he told me that he would do well this time and get an ideal result. As a result, I failed the exam. Seeing the first sentence, I said, "Don't ask me about my grades. I didn't do well in the exam. " Silence all the way, go home and hide in the house. At that time, I thought about it, and I should be good friends with him and listen to him. After he finished, he said to me, "You must be very disappointed in me." I said; "Carelessness in exams is normal. Don't blame yourself too much. With this failure, you will succeed in the future. People always learn to grow in failure and have a long memory. Temporary grades don't mean anything. Don't take your grades too seriously. Putting too much pressure on yourself is counterproductive. Just keep a normal mind and work hard at every exam. You have always been the pride of my mother. How can I be disappointed in you? " After listening to my words, he nodded happily and said happily, "I will work hard in the future."
The child is in a rebellious period and has strong self-esteem. Parents should care more and scold less. And give proper praise and encouragement, he will get better and better. Be a mentor and friend in their lives, share their joys and sorrows, and let children open their hearts and be willing to talk to you. Only in this way can we ensure the healthy and all-round development of children.