1. Parents have high expectations and requirements for their children. No matter how hard the children try, they can't satisfy their parents. They always compare their children with their good classmates.

2. Parents are always satisfied and always arrange. Oversatisfying children materially and arranging children in life and thought will basically not let them do anything except study.

In addition, you can ask your child: What do you want to be when you grow up? Are you happy now?

If the answer is: Never mind, I don't know. Unhappy and boring.

You should pay special attention! The problem of such children is already very serious. It is a manifestation of a child's serious lack of responsibility.

It's not too late to correct the deviation, but it will be troublesome after 18 years old. It's easy to get addicted to Internet, stay indoors, escape from society and real life, and expect to show their value in other aspects, and pursue their own existence and the attention of others.

China-Europe international psychological institutions have a lot of experience in this field, you can learn about it.