As children grow up, their ability to accept new things becomes stronger and stronger. As parents, treat children persuasively, seriously, pay more attention to their words and deeds, and give them a correct and rational example.

2. Action: Never delay.

In family education, parents should stand at the height of their children, strengthen their mobility, guide them to do things that they dare not do, don't want to do and are difficult to do, develop their mobility in concrete actions and promote their healthy development. In daily life, parents must make promises to their children, set an example, and don't procrastinate on things that need to be done immediately. If there is something you can't do, explain it clearly to your child and promise him when to do it.

Cultivating children's mobility is not achieved overnight. We should teach slowly, guide slowly, start from every little thing in life, and develop the habit of children being resolute and vigorous.

3. Self-control: Don't indulge yourself.

Many parents feel that their children's self-control is not good, especially in their studies. But where children are interested, self-control is too good to make people laugh and cry. For example, you can play games for hours without rest, run like crazy, and continue to play even if you are tired. This shows that children also have self-control, but in different ways.

Children will have strong self-control when they meet something they like. If it becomes an obstacle due to internal reasons, parents should not blame their children for their lack of self-control, but should find the reasons and methods to cultivate their interests, hobbies, self-confidence and fitness. At the same time, they should pay attention to help analyze the causes of problems, solve problems in a targeted manner, and solve the problem of self-control of children who are troubled by parents.

4. Righteousness: If the prize is awarded, it will be punished.

In the process of children's growth, necessary criticism is helpful to children's healthy growth and is the promoter and catalyst of children's success. Appropriate rewards can also make children have better interests and increase their love for new things. However, if we reward children when they shouldn't, or punish them when they are young and ignorant, it will have a great impact on their growth.

What parents should do is to supervise with their children, distinguish rewards and punishments, make mutual agreements, and guide their children to learn fairness and justice, which will be more conducive to their healthy physical and mental growth.

5. Preparation: Everything is done in advance.

Many parents feel that it is not important for children to develop the habit of "doing everything in advance". Actually, it is not. From an early age, children should be educated to make all preparations and make plans in advance, and many things can be solved easily. I think that when children personally realize the importance of preparation, everything will definitely be "if you want to do well, you must sharpen your tools first."