Well, there are too many kinds. The painstaking care of parents, the tireless education of teachers, the selfless training of bosses, the timely help of friends, and the appreciation and attention of wise people.
Well, ... it can be said that every kind of kindness contains touching stories, which bloom beautiful flowers in the world and exude the fragrance of purifying the soul. The word grace is heavy, and grace contains universal feelings. Born in the world, who is not grateful?
Among all the benefits, the first one is the benefit of "knowing what happened" In the old society, appreciation, preferential treatment and reuse were called "knowing each other". Published a book "Biography of Song Ge in Northern Song Dynasty": "Filial piety was once a small official, with a clear posture and considerable progress from bottom to top. The emperor called this good man for a long time because he was knowledgeable. Give it a name, which means taking it and offering jade. The king of Chu doesn't know the treasure. "
We can see from relevant historical materials that "knowing each other" is by no means a general appreciation, preferential treatment and reuse. It has the following remarkable characteristics:
First, "knowing each other" is more about the benefactor's appreciation of the benefactor's character, taste, knowledge, ability and reputation, as well as his bold use of the arrangement. Liu Bei's "three visits to the thatched cottage" is due to Zhuge Liang's outstanding wizards and
High moral character. If Zhuge Liang was not famous for his literary talent, he would not be respected by the world and Liu Bei would not know him. Only a swift horse can get Bole's "encounter", but it is impossible for Xu to get Bole.
In the appreciation of "The Grace of Knowing Encounters", the benefactor should be able to "know the pearl with an eye" and "obey and teach", otherwise there will be no "the grace of knowing encounters".
Second, "knowing each other" abandons the stale hierarchical concept of sects. Even if the benefactor is humble or in adversity, the benefactor can break through the rough appearance and see the jade and gold hidden inside. Qi Huangong doesn't remember Guan Zhong's "revenge with one arrow"
"Revenge, let him preside over the military plan. Chu Zhuangwang did not listen to the request of the humiliated princess and put out the candle, so that the general who drank disrespectfully was not punished. When Ba Jin was on the editorial board of Literary Quarterly, he chose "Gold" from miscellaneous manuscripts, which was an unremarkable article.
Cao Yu, an unknown college student, is very excited about Thunderstorm. Through his hand, Thunderstorm was published in Literary Quarterly, which contributed to the birth of this classic that shocked the world!
Third, "knowing each other" is not blind personal grievances and narrow short-term behavior, but a process of continuous release of lofty feelings. Friendship between fair-weather friends and brothers is not "knowing each other". Only when the benefactor has good character cultivation and uniqueness
His wisdom of knowledge, container and weight not only found a benefactor from all sentient beings, but also constantly appreciated, cared for and reused his growth, success and fame, making him "know each other". 1925, 25 years old
Ding Ling wrote the manuscript Monk, and Ye Shengtao, editor of Ming Kai Bookstore, saw maturity from childishness. She didn't take articles according to seniority and published them in the Novel Monthly, which made her stand out from the crowd and has been caring for this "out of line" ever since.
Genius, even if she was treated unfairly. In a sense, "integration of knowledge and practice" can find, attract, train and stabilize talents, and play the role of talents most effectively.
Fourth, "knowing each other" can generally enhance the trust and communication between people and form a friendship that is as close as lips and teeth, treating each other with sincerity and sharing weal and woe. In order to report Yan Taizi Dan's "kindness in meeting him", Gao Jianli sang a thousand years of grief and indignation in Jiansheng; surname
Liang Xie's "three visits to the cottage" and "knowing the grace", do your best and die; The tender concubine did not forget the "kindness in meeting with the overlord Chu" and gave her last neck blood without any regrets; Although Cao Yu later became famous, was he only six years younger than Ba Jin?
Years old, but he has always been Ba Jin's teacher; 1979 The first thing Ding Ling did after Beijing's rehabilitation was to visit Mr. Ye Shengtao ... All these strongly show that the righteous people showed gratitude for "meeting him".
The lofty spirit of "a scholar dies for his bosom friend" and "communication between heart and bosom friend"
To sum up, "getting to know each other" is a rare opportunity. Cherish, treat and be grateful for "knowledge" so as not to blaspheme and vulgar "knowledge".
Excerpted from Baidu netizens, thank you.