Recently, I watched a program of News Investigation in Chai Jing. Although it was first broadcast in 2009, it still has a great influence on me now. The theme of this program is "growing up", which is a survey on the social status of teenage pregnancy. This program has attracted great attention from the society, and many schools across the country have organized students to watch, learn and understand the physiological knowledge of minors.
The author thinks this program is very good, which caters to hot spots, goes deep into problems from many angles, and reveals various reasons for teenage pregnancy. Of course, there are individuals' curiosity and germination in adolescence, but more of them come from family taboos, the lack of school-related education, and our country's long-term collective silence on this issue.
After watching this program, there is a problem that I deeply feel, that is, the role of father in girls' adolescent growth is very important. There is often a saying among the people: girls should be raised well. I didn't quite understand this sentence before, but now I understand it. Girls are weak and often need to rely on them. They need their parents' love and sense of security when they grow up.
Therefore, the role of father in this respect is very important, because girls do not feel a kind of care from male elders in the family, they will be curious about the opposite sex and eager to have such a reliable boyfriend. This is the case with many underage girls who are unexpectedly pregnant in the film. Either single-parent families have no father around, or they are alienated from their father and can't feel his love.
Underage girls are young and should be naive and full of dreams. Unintended pregnancy not only hurts their bodies, but also casts a shadow over their hearts. Sex should be born of love, and love means responsibility. Underage girls are not fully developed physically and mentally, lack relevant contraceptive knowledge and do not know how to protect themselves, so they are unable to bear the consequences.
The author thinks that the physiological knowledge education of minors should be carried out as soon as possible. Although this program has been broadcast for three years, there is still no big breakthrough in this situation. Most schools still only pay attention to grades, exams, scores, and health classes are just decorations.
For families, parents are actually the best teachers for children's adolescent education. Demonizing this kind of education and keeping silent about it will only further encourage the curiosity of boys and girls. Social organizations should also work together to promote this work.