First of all, I want to tell you that education still needs methods and communication, not beating and cursing. The result of beating and cursing will only make children more and more rebellious. Every child has a different personality, and some have strong self-esteem. If they are worse, their parents will blame themselves. Some children are thin and don't take their parents' words seriously. After all, beating and scolding children is a last resort. Only through more communication, more guidance, more patience and guidance with love and warmth can children appreciate the kindness of their parents.

If there are disobedient children at home, you can try from the following aspects:

1. When children are willful, they must first stop their willful behavior. Parents should not educate too much at this time. At this time, give the child time to calm down and make the child angry. Communicate with your child after you are emotionally stable.

2. Stand in the child's perspective and sympathize with the child. Communication requires skill. It is not parents' open education, but let children express their ideas first, and then parents will talk about their views on their ideas, so that children can feel their parents' respect and be willing to communicate with their parents and communicate with each other. Listen to opinions.

A child is helpless when he makes a mistake. What is needed now is not reprimand, but sympathy, and someone can bear it.

4. Encourage children and praise their every progress. As the saying goes, "at the beginning of life, human nature is good." Every child is born kind, and mistakes are often unintentional. Children's mistakes are inevitable. Don't rush to correct your child's mistake, but point it out and the child will admit it. ? Although children make mistakes, don't scold them. After all, children are children, and their self-control is not mature enough to control their behaviors and emotions well. Parents only need to remind them in time and wait patiently for their children's progress. ? .

This method of diverting attention is suitable for young children. Parents can take advantage of their children's psychological characteristics of being easily distracted and attracted by new things to shift their attention from what they insist on to other novel and interesting objects or things.