? Although lovelorn is a profound psychological brand for most college students, it is inevitable that college students who have suffered from lovelorn will have sad and painful psychological reactions. However, it is gratifying that most college students who have experienced lovelorn stage can return to normal life mode after a period of adjustment, and will treat this transition period with a positive attitude, analyze the reasons for lovelorn, and review themselves, so as to add rational weight to their future love path.

Under the current education system, schools should not only be responsible for imparting cultural knowledge to students, but also guide students to establish a correct outlook on life and world through various channels. After more than ten years of study and education, most college students have also established a positive attitude towards life and a good attitude towards problems, and they will not be extremely paranoid when they encounter things, which also urges many college students not to lose their morality and ideals in life after falling in love, but still to invest their energy.

(B) negative mentality, extreme behavior

Because many college students are not mature in mental and emotional control, have no previous love experience and don't know how to treat and deal with their feelings positively and correctly, some college students can't adjust themselves actively after falling in love, and the overall lovelorn psychology shows very depressed or intense behavior, which has caused certain harm to themselves and others.

Generally speaking, the negative psychological manifestations of lovelorn can be divided into several types: First, excessive depression and escape. Some college students will be particularly depressed after being hit by lovelorn, and even after a period of time, they still can't recover. In the face of lovelorn, they are unwilling to accept the reality and blindly escape, thinking that lovelorn is not only a loss of emotional sustenance, but also an embarrassing thing. They are unwilling to face the inquiries and concerns of their friends, and some have a psychological shadow of inferiority under great psychological pressure. Second, the reaction is fierce and irrational. A small number of college students are psychologically fragile and sensitive. After their feelings changed, they couldn't accept the sudden change. After falling out of love, they lost their minds and vented their emotions hysterically, turning their dissatisfaction into excessive behavior. Some college students even retaliate against their former lovers, causing harm to the personal safety of others. There are also some college students who can't face their own lives after being lovelorn, and finally choose to give up their lives. Take a typical suicide last year as an example. At the end of last year, a sophomore girl of Zhanjiang University decided to end her short life with pesticides in the hotel after encountering emotional problems. With her departure, her family and friends were also extremely sad. This irrational performance of lovelorn not only harms oneself, but also harms others.