People of the older generation are suffering. They believe that thrift is a virtue, praise suffering and take pride in suffering. This idea has penetrated into the bone marrow.
The connection between happiness and bad.
In previous education, happiness was always associated with unhappiness, such as playing with things, being arrogant and extravagant, and so on.
Parental expectations
When parents want to find a sense of existence and prove their existence and dignity.