I believe that many parents have an attitude when educating their children. Some parents educate their children with a loving attitude, and some parents are more strict and educate their children with a strict attitude. No matter what attitude, I think it has a certain effect.
Because first of all, attitude is very important to educate children well. This attitude runs through the whole process of your education. My main attitude towards educating children is also based on love.
Because we all know how important the education of love is, I mainly have two attitudes in the process of children's life, including learning. First of all, 1 means that no matter what the child does, as long as he can finish it by himself, I will never help.
Why is this happening? It is because I think that if I help my children too much and do everything for them, I will only spoil them and make them lack independent ability and rely too much on their parents. In this case, their children will have many shortcomings.
For example, there is no opinion in doing things, such as doing things without responsibility. If you help your child do everything well, the child will only develop more bad habits. Therefore, my attitude towards educating children is that I will never help them if they can do it themselves.
Only children can't finish it. I will help him do it together or help him finish it. Secondly, my attitude in educating children is that no matter what the child does wrong, no matter what the child does wrong, I will definitely help him, guide him and support him.
Many parents always choose to blame their children when they make mistakes, thinking that their children are bad children. This is not right. I think if you scold her once in front of the child and tell the child that you are a poor child, then the child's self-esteem will be greatly hit and he will have distrust of his parents.
Therefore, my attitude in educating children is that no matter what the child has done wrong, I will support him, guide him and help him correct this mistake, instead of blaming him. Because I hope he knows that something is wrong, and the most important thing is to solve it. Only by apologizing can others forgive him, but no matter what you do, mom will support you.