Looking at the older generation, if they really "learn", "make a difference in society" or have a certain social status, they don't love "educating" people so much. Most of them like to discuss things with young people. If the discussion is really intense and in-depth, they will feel that they have learned something from young people, but they will lament that they are not as fast as young people in accepting new things.
On the other hand, some "mediocre" and "empty for a long time" elders, the more they go to some family gatherings, the more they like to highlight their "family status", and they will always come up with some so-called truths, no matter what they are familiar with or unfamiliar with, or even what they have never been exposed to, they can always talk to Kan Kan with their mouths open. At this time, once refuted, it will be strongly suppressed by identity.
"I have lived for fifty or sixty years. What do you know as a young man who has just left society? "
"What I said is wrong. When I was wandering in society, you were not born yet. "
Maybe they really have nothing else to prove themselves, so they can only find some balance from the "innate advantage" of this family relationship to satisfy their self-esteem!
Some people say that elders are really good to you, and I basically agree, but does "being good to you" necessarily mean "being suitable for you and being good to you"?
Eating eggs is good for health, but some people are allergic to eggs. You still have to go after him and tell him that I must eat eggs for your own good!
This situation is the most difficult, you can't fight, you can't scold, and you can't. There are enough bits and pieces in life. I hope the elders will stop clinging to "educating" the younger generation. After all, we won't listen to what you say!