Parents are children's first teachers, and many behaviors will cause children to imitate. Therefore, parents here must set an example and match their words with deeds. In addition, when you need to pay attention, don't take too many notes of others and children, which will make children rebellious.
2. Encourage and praise children
The child's self-esteem is also very strong, and sometimes an insult can make him feel bad for a long time. On the contrary, encouraging him more will make children energetic.
3. Environmental influence
Parents should consciously create a good living environment to infect and raise their children. Family is the main place where children live. Parents should organize their own lives, handle the relationship between members, adhere to the correct moral behavior as the criterion, form a United and harmonious family atmosphere, establish an orderly life order, and cultivate children's good sentiments.
4. Persuade education to respect children
The specific methods of persuasion education are: 1. Talking, parents state facts and reasons according to their children's ideological reality, so that children can understand certain truth; Conversations should be targeted, flexible and friendly, not condemned or satirized. The second is discussion, where parents and children discuss together. When discussing, we should respect the children, listen to their opinions patiently, have incorrect opinions, reason patiently, and let the children distinguish right from wrong. Parents should admit that their views are incorrect.
Step 5 learn to be tolerant
It is normal for children to make mistakes because they are young and ignorant. When children make mistakes, parents should not immediately criticize and blame them. Instead, we should be tolerant and tell them why they made mistakes and what is right. In addition, parents' tolerance can make children feel guilty to some extent, and he will know how to do the same thing next time.
6. Spend more time with your children
To develop well, families need a good atmosphere, and a good atmosphere of consent is also conducive to education. Parents can do activities with their children, such as outing, shopping and hobbies. In this way, parents can sum up and deepen their relationship with their children and find out their needs.
7, guide the arrangement of life order
A good life order is an effective way to cultivate children's good habits. Guide children to arrange their daily life, arrange their living environment, teach children to study, make good use of their time and keep themselves in order. Let the children make their own arrangements, and parents can give directions.
8, criticism and punishment can not be less, but don't insult children.
Criticism and punishment are the negation of children's bad thoughts and behaviors, and the latter is the educational means for serious bad thoughts and behaviors. When criticizing and punishing, we must first fully understand the situation and master the specific situation and severity of bad thoughts and behaviors. Criticism is based on the wrong reality, pointing out the harm and ideological roots, denying their thoughts and behaviors, making them feel ashamed and miserable, thus generating the motivation to correct their mistakes. Don't be sarcastic, sarcastic or abusive when criticizing. Punishment is mainly deprivation of certain rights, not corporal punishment, not insulting personality and destroying body and mind.
9. Guide children to read more extracurricular books.
Guide children to read books, newspapers and magazines, and learn useful spiritual nutrition from them. Parents should master the content of children's reading, discuss with children, guide children to increase their knowledge, broaden their horizons and be influenced by children's spirit.