Many parents have more or less educational misunderstandings, thinking that their children can be properly educated by teachers as long as they are placed in school. In fact, many times, children's education is more reflected in the family environment. Just like we have heard a saying that "some things can only be taught by parents", how should parents carry out family education?
1, give children a warm family environment.
A harmonious growth environment must be created by parents. When children come back from school, sometimes teachers can't solve what happened at school in time. When I get home, I can only rely on my parents to cultivate me.
A good growth environment and good family education will affect the establishment of children's good behavior habits and moral conduct, and also make children rely on their families and produce positive emotions. Such children will not hate things around them, nor will they have negative emotions such as suicide and weariness of learning because of their families, and they will cultivate a broad mind.
2. Cultivate reading interest
Reading interest begins with prenatal education. Parents who love reading and a growing environment with many books will create a child who loves reading. The amount of knowledge brought by books is not what a kindergarten teacher, a primary school teacher, a middle school teacher or even a university teacher can bring, and of course it is not what they can guide.
The cultivation of reading interest must start from parents. Even telling more fairy tales, reading picture books with children and chatting with children according to stories can help children develop reading habits. If the child is already in primary school, he should also be encouraged to read more extracurricular books to increase his knowledge.
3. Safety education
No matter how many times the teacher tells you, there are always some students who violate traffic rules on their way to school. The education of children's safety rules must start with dolls. Parents should not run red lights and take chances. Children must be severely reprimanded for running around. Especially female parents riding electric cars, they don't run red lights, they just set an example for their children.
Please remember that the teacher is only responsible for the safety in the school, not the traffic on the road. Once a child is injured in violation of traffic regulations, you will feel distressed for a while, even for a lifetime.
4. Life details management
Different children have different life details, but they also need careful analysis by parents, and some need strict management. Internet addiction, for example, is obviously because parents do not strictly manage their children's online habits, which leads to children's inseparable from computers.
We should also manage our study and living habits and set an example. Parents have good living habits and children will imitate them. Mothers love cleanliness, children will also talk about hygiene, mothers will act neatly, and children will not have procrastination. In the habit formation stage, we should pay special attention to the handling of life details and set a good example for children. At the same time, carry out appropriate management norms and don't let children deviate from the right path.
5. Let children learn to face setbacks and bear the test.
Those who can stand the pressure, stand the test and laugh at all kinds of twists and turns in life are truly strong. Parents should pay attention to encouraging their children when they encounter setbacks, and let them know that falling is not terrible, and it is more important to stand up again.
6. Collision in the rebellious period
When the children reach the fourth and fifth grades, they dare to talk back to you-this may be used by grandparents, or the rules set by parents are wrong. Remember, it is necessary to prescribe the right medicine for children's shortcomings, especially not to give in in principle. For example, if you don't finish your homework, you can't sleep; Just turn off the computer and don't play games.
If children want to grow up healthily, school education alone is definitely not enough. Only by combining home and school can children make continuous progress. Please remember this sentence: "You may not be a genius, but you can be a gifted parent." This process often requires parents to make more efforts.
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