Many people don't know how to cherish until they lose it, which is a common problem.
If you have health, you will indulge yourself, stay up late casually, disdain health preservation, and only care about the happiness of living in the present. When the disease suddenly struck, I regretted it and lamented that it was too late to regret it.
Fortunately, most diseases can be cured. Even the cancer that makes people smell pale is divided into early, middle and late stages, and it is not necessarily fatal.
Qipa said that debater Qiu Chen was diagnosed with thyroid malignant tumor on 20 18, and fought with the disease for a long but unyielding time, and finally stood at the end with a smile.
She said: "Death is the most accurate education for life."
After a serious illness, breathing fresh air again and standing in the sun freely again, that kind of happiness is the liberation after truly understanding the true meaning of life.
reunite after a long separation
Parting is the main theme of life, and everyone is constantly experiencing meeting and separation again and again.
The poet wrote: "After parting, I remember meeting you, and I dreamed of being with you several times." I'm afraid it is a dream to see you tonight. "
That's missing from afar. It's called not sleeping well, and my pillow is wet with tears.
Fortunately, one day, the flowers will reopen and people will return.
As the line in the movie "Your Name" said: "On the day when it is far away from now, we agreed to meet again. I know, I will find you. "
After years of separation, you and I have both grown into the best in the years of tempering. When we met again, we smiled and said, "Long time no see, I hope you are all right."
This is probably the best annotation of happiness.
false alarm
I remember Han Han once said in Malaysia Airlines:
"Sometimes, the word' false alarm' is the most beautiful idiom in the world, which is a hundred times better than anything cheerful, colorful and smooth. Do you know what loss means? These days, I feel even more so. May sadness and fear pass, and people outside know how to cherish it. "
The most terrible thing is a sudden accident; The happiest thing is a misunderstanding of false positives.
Cancer patients are the most desperate when they get the diagnosis report. The moment I was told that I was misdiagnosed was the happiest.
All the troubles and sorrows are too late to go back, and you can have a chance to start again. That kind of happiness is no different from winning the lottery.
Get back what you lost before
Life is very long, we will meet many people and lose many people.
If you have never experienced loss, you won't understand the value of having it.
The most rare thing is that after many years, the lost people have returned to their own side, and those lost things have returned to their own hands.
Huang Weiwen and Miriam Yeung used to be "best friends". They broke up twice and shook hands again after many years.
As Huang Weiwen wrote in the song "The Best Debt": "I only hope that I can put this life behind me, remember the world I shared with you, and remember the parties I shared with you. You are the best debt. "
What a pity that I lost you; How lucky I am to have you again.
Happiness was once thought to be lost forever, and then it came back in another way.
Flipped
In this life, there must be a moment when people forget to breathe, forget their heartbeat and forget to think.
As Faye Wong sang in Time flies: "You are beside me, only meeting each other. On a sunny day in May, the lightning flashed. "
As Mr. Yu Guangzhong wrote: "If there is a full moon in the sky when the new snow begins, there is a bright shadow under it with bright silver on it. You come to me with a smile. Between the moonlight and the snow, you are the third stunning."
Another example is the famous scene in the movie "Heart Beating", in which the heroine raises her head and bumps into the smiling eyes of the hero.
Every once in a while you find someone who's iridescent, and when you do, nothing will ever compare. Just one look, and then for the rest of my life.
The feeling of being hit by a heavy object in my heart is called heartache.
Having the experience of the whole world in an instant is the initial starting point of happiness, the purest and the warmest.