Introversion and reticence are the result of children's personality, not their fault, and even sometimes children are just a little shy. Therefore, parents should not force their children to communicate with others when guiding. Children will cry to express their emotions, and older children will hold their grievances in their hearts and narrow their protection circle again.

The first is to let children like life and feel the beauty of things around them. If children are interested in hobbies, such as writing, art, doing small experiments, etc. They should be guided and given enough time to study and enjoy, and they will be more positive and optimistic about life. If children have no hobbies, they can take them out for a walk, get in touch with the outside world and try various activities, and children will gradually discover what they are interested in.

It is important to communicate with children more. Some children's introverted personality is acquired. Parents should understand their inner thoughts and let them talk more about their feelings. Turning instructing children to do things into advising children, communicating with children in a gentle tone, letting children understand right and wrong and weighing their own decisions is much better than blindly accusing children of not saying beautiful words and not playing with them.

For introverted children, exposure to art, music, science, literature and sports activities is a very positive experience. Parents can do more daily activities to enrich their children's imagination, and suggest their children to read something new and unfamiliar, such as a book with a new theme. Ask children questions frequently, let them think of five new uses of familiar objects, and play some creative word games and puzzles. Instead of buying a new game, let them make one themselves. Getting along with introverted children at home is sometimes challenging, and introverted children regard their room as a safe haven. Give them some quiet time and leave them alone. Share your personality needs as a parent with your children. Tell your children what you want them to look like. Parents should not regard introversion as their children's shortcomings. They are just more difficult for people to discover their strengths and preferences than extroverted children. So instead of insisting on changing children, it is better to adapt to each other and adjust to the best.