In fact, there are many horse-haired men now, because most people are only children now, and they still listen to their mothers. Because of this, many mothers will especially love their sons and even want to do everything for them. Under such circumstances, many of our children have lost the ability of subject-predicate thinking, which also makes our children dependent to some extent. Ma Baonan's greatest feature is that he has no decision-making power in doing anything and has great dependence on his mother. Once he has such behaviors and ways, including his own children, he will become a Mabao man ideologically.
Therefore, in order for children to grow up without becoming a horse-haired man, we must first let them have the ability to handle things independently from their own work style and everything they encounter, including their parents' suggestions, and take all aspects into account. When a child encounters something that he can't do, or when the child has any plans for the next time, as a mother, he must be able to communicate with the child well, so that the child can clearly know what he will do next and how to deal with a thing.
It may be of great help to tell children what to do in the usual educational way. But from another angle, if our parents can tell their children what you think and how you think you will deal with this problem when they encounter many things again, then for children, they may sometimes avoid relying on their parents.
Even if I encounter many things, I will take the initiative to think from the subjective consciousness. Let children ask more why, and parents should ask more why, so that the ways of mutual communication will be more abundant, and children can learn a lot in the process of growing up.
For many of our children, we must have such awareness and such subjective initiative, so that in the process of children's growth, we can largely avoid becoming a baby boy. ?