1 First of all, adults should follow the children's nature. Children of every age have their own physical and mental development characteristics and specific development tasks, so parents should fully consider their age characteristics when educating their children. At what age, children need the right space and time to grow up freely. Forcing children to attend various interest classes, adults' enthusiasm for high scores can only increase the burden on children. It is no good to encourage children to bear psychological pressure that they should not bear at this age. The pressure of survival is passed on to children too early, which is easy to create a "little adult" with a heavy heart.

Don't impose adult values on children. Although children can't avoid the "hidden rules" of society when they are adults, how can they become children by introducing them prematurely? Parents need to establish a positive image in their interaction with their children. They should not only set an example in dealing with people, but also guide children's views and ways of doing things on social phenomena from the front, and less discuss the right and wrong of the unit and others in front of children.

3. Let the children live in the children's society again. Because parents are worried about safety and children are too "busy", children now spend less time with their peers. However, communication with peers is an important way for children to develop their social skills. Children need to play, learn and grow with their peers and seek strength from them. Parents should give their children more opportunities to communicate with their peers and let them return to themselves.