As we all know, parents are the best teachers for children, and every move of parents will affect their future behavior. So how should parents educate their children in the family? Then please enjoy the following contents about how parents should educate their children in the family.
First, parents should keep in touch with schools and teachers, grasp their children's ideological trends and educate them effectively.
Some parents think it is their duty to send their children to school. Once their children enter the school, they will rest assured that all the responsibilities of education will be shifted to the teachers, thinking that educating their children is only a school matter, or some parents think that their children have poor performance or poor performance at school, and they have no face to see the teachers at school. Only when their children win honors will they have the face to meet the school teachers. In fact, this is all very wrong. If a child has bad behaviors or problems, it is necessary to strengthen cooperation and contact with the school, understand the children's ideological trends and the root causes of the problems, adopt effective ways and means that are conducive to children's acceptance, guide children to develop in a good way, and make them become talents with sound personality and useful to society. If we deliberately avoid this situation, it will do harm to children and cause great losses to family education.
Second, extreme methods or means should not be adopted in children's education.
When some parents' educational measures for their children are ineffective, they swear or beat them up, or let them go. This method is not advisable. When your educational methods don't work, you should calm down and think about it. Do you force your children to agree with your views or practices, or educate them for their own benefit? For these children, we should really understand their inner world, analyze the root causes, start with caring for and helping their growth and development, and adopt methods that children can easily change and accept.
Third, we should attach importance to parenting education.
Children are very concerned about whether their parents are fully committed and concerned about their growth. Although some parents stay with their children all the year round, they don't necessarily communicate often. Most parents neglect parenting education on the grounds of being busy. Parents' parenting education should be ahead of children's physical and mental development, so parents should devote themselves to their children's education and constantly learn and improve their ability to educate their children in order to win their respect and love.
Fourth, create a good knowledge environment.
Children should have a good small environment, not high-end, but atmosphere, and students should avoid unnecessary family gossip when studying. Try to tolerate shortcomings and look at children with a magnifying glass. You know, there are no perfect children in the world, even perfect children have their own shortcomings. Parents' trust in their children is an important basis for communication with their children.
Fifth, praise more and criticize less.
Appropriate praise is a stimulant and lubricant for parents to communicate with their children. Parents always understand, appreciate, praise and encourage their children, which will enhance their self-esteem and self-confidence. On the contrary, it will make children feel insecure. Therefore, parents must remember that praise and encouragement will make their children progress, while criticism and complaints will make them fall behind. Of course, praise should be measured and not extreme.
Sixth, promote children to develop good living and study habits.
1, the habit of learning. Parents should often take their children to the library to read books when conditions permit. When you meet a book that your child likes, as long as it is helpful for learning, try to buy it for your child and help him accumulate it. Of course, if you can accumulate with your children, it would be better to participate in various competitions. Because in this process, children will gain a great sense of superiority and thus fall in love with reading more. Only when he falls in love with reading will he fall in love with learning.
2. Do homework and review the habit of previewing the text. When children come home from school every day, the first thing is to finish their homework. Children in lower grades should be urged by their parents to study and do their homework at home. A child with strong consciousness only needs to be reminded. For a child with poor consciousness, parents should insist, and slowly he will write by himself. When my children were in grade one or two, I was basically guarding 99% of their homework. We should correct the wrong problems in time. Being accompanied by parents not only avoids the problem that children love to play homework, but also promotes the formation of children's habit of consciously completing homework to a certain extent. Now the child is in the fourth grade. In addition to the difficulty of homework, you need to ask for advice. Basically, I can do all my homework without asking. Parents should pay more attention to the problem of preview. Especially when reading texts, parents must spend some time checking their children's reading. Unqualified means reading, and the effect is definitely better every time until you pass the reading. Moreover, you should sign the words "How many times have you read the text" or "The text has been read" in the blank space of the text, and sign the parents' names.
3. Help children develop good work and rest habits. Early to bed and early to rise. Children are required to watch TV for no more than 30 minutes every day, and the TV content they watch should be healthy and upward programs based on children's channels. Conditional parents should cooperate with their children to participate in various social practice activities that are beneficial to the body and mind.
4. Rationally guide children to make friends. As the saying goes, those who are close to Mexico are black, and those who are close to Zhu Zhechi are black. However, in primary school, their judgment ability is not strong. Therefore, as parents, always paying attention to their children's friendship and giving correct guidance will be beneficial to their development.
The premise of educating children is to know them. Appreciation leads to success, and complaining leads to failure. As long as parents are full of confidence in their children's education and adopt methods suitable for their children's growth and development, they will certainly cultivate good children with both ability and political integrity.