There is a boy at home, and both Bao Dad and Du Hui have a headache about his education, because the boy always carries a lot of "labels", is inattentive, mischievous and unlike a man, etc. It seems that the boy's education path is always not smooth. In fact, sometimes it's not that children are not sensible, not that children are worthless, but that there is something wrong with parents' educational methods.

Boys should be "poor"?

As the saying goes, "rich girls, poor children", do boys really have to be poor? Many parents didn't understand the meaning of this sentence correctly. "Helping the poor" means cultivating boys to develop good qualities of diligence, thrift and hard work from an early age, instead of blindly showing material shortage, wearing other people's clothes and using other people's old stationery. If a boy is too depressed financially since childhood, he will become very stingy. Being stingy is not what boys should look like. In the future, it will affect his interpersonal relationship and the principle of dealing with people, because he will become short-sighted and unwilling to help others.

Men are not allowed to cry.

Other parents are very strict with boys, thinking that boys should not show fear and cowardice, but should show courage and fearlessness under any conditions. In fact, the parents' original intention is good, hoping that their children can be independent and be a man with indomitable spirit. However, parents have neglected a very important issue. Crying and laughing are the same, and they are both expressions of emotions. Boys will also encounter mood swings and nerve stimulation, and they also need to vent their emotions. If parents blindly suppress the child's heart, the child's emotions will not be expressed, which is not conducive to his physical and mental health.

The good boy was defeated.

For older boys, he will be naughty and answer back when he makes mistakes. Some parents think that "boys are unreasonable and fight" and firmly believe that children can't. Although the education methods of boys and girls are slightly different, children cannot be educated by violence. Beating a child not only fails to achieve his educational goal, but also leaves a shadow in the child's heart, which is more likely to cause his rebellious psychology. Parents should try their best to teach him a lot of truth, not to make him give in by beating and cursing.

Boys don't need to dress up?

Many people think that boys don't need to pay attention to dressing up, but although parents think that boys don't need to be too strict about dressing up, they should try to keep him clean and tidy, and prepare several different types of clothes in his closet to suit different occasions, so as to cultivate children's sense of ceremony from an early age.

In fact, a boy's exquisite packaging will make him more confident. A boy should be energetic, and a boy who knows how to satisfy himself will be better.