When you know, he will lie to you in black and white, and you know it. Don't rule out that he is dealing with you the way you deal with him! In a word, you have no place in the eyes of a liar! Liars protect themselves everywhere and treat you as an alternative. Why did this happen between you? You must check yourself, you can't blame others!
As for how to deal with liars, I suggest you be good! Choose to stay away!
The best way to deal with such people is to stay away. There is no need to continue struggling, or you will be tired. As the saying goes, out of sight, out of mind.
1, since lying has become a habit, it has become a habit. There's nothing to trust. Stay away.
2. Reversing right and wrong and framing others can show that this person has a very bad personality and there is no room for trust at all.
When making friends, you need to see a person clearly. If not, stay away as soon as possible, because no one knows when and where he will stab you in the back.
There are several strategies for reference:
1, irrelevant personnel: stay away directly;
2. People close to him: know why he lied and know his expectations. Whether communication with him can be achieved by not lying, in addition, the punishment for lying should be appropriate, both goodwill and goodwill.
If you lie about one thing, you may feel dissatisfied. You lied for a long time, and what you said was black. This is not only a bad personality, but also a bad temper and poor family education. What kind of family background educated such a person to lie and turn black and white for a long time?
A person with a bad career, poor family conditions, little hope of salvation and bad personality can't help it. No matter what job you do, you are not honest with liars. This has become a habit and it is difficult to change. In fact, he doesn't care about these principles. I don't think about the cause and effect of things at all. I want to be happy and in a good mood. It doesn't matter to anyone else I don't believe he can handle anything.
Reverse black-and-white theory
Ming is a withdrawn person, and he is extremely thoughtful. He doesn't know much about such people. It's best to stay away from him as soon as possible, so that people can hide, not to be taunted and difficult to deal with.
The easiest way is to choose to stay away from, WeChat, telephone, and all contact information is no longer contacted. In order to ensure the safety of your family and yourself, you don't understand the basic principles of being a man, and it's not worth making friends.
Since a person is born to lie and reverse black and white, it shows that this person has become accustomed to lying and distorting the facts. According to common sense, we should stay away from these people directly. But many times, we can't avoid these people, not only can't stay away from them, but also have to face them every day. For example, he:
The truth behind a lie:
Let's first analyze the main reasons why people lie:
Treat lies rationally
For a liar, when turning a lie into a way of communication, you should ask yourself, what can you get from this lie? What else can you lose?
For the victims of lies, we need to have a clear understanding of lies. Some lies are reasonable and some are unreasonable. Some lies are white, others are malicious. Some lies will cause irreparable harm, while others will actually prevent the harm to innocent people. Sometimes, a temporary lie is to maintain a relationship, but a long-term lie will cause serious harm to a relationship. Therefore, Ge Hua believes that the advice to deal with lies is:
The above is just my personal opinion.
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Stay away from the river if you don't want to wet your shoes!
If you don't want to be polluted, stay away from the sludge!
There are still many honest and trustworthy people in society.
Although these people may have no power, potential or money,
A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water!
Plain life may be the real life!
Hello, questioner! My answer to this question is as follows:
First, stay at a respectful distance from others. Try to keep your distance from such people at ordinary times.
Second, if you have to contact such people for work reasons, you should pay more attention. When you talk to him, you should think twice before you speak. You should think twice when you listen to him. It's best to check behind your back. Don't blindly believe.
Third, you must have the ability to fight back. If such people bully you one day, you must dare to fight back, and hit the nail on the head, recruit the enemy and let him know that you are not easy to mess with.
The above is my answer, I hope I can help you.
Do not believe, not close, have to guard against.
Cowardice made him afraid to face the facts. Lying is self-distrust.
If you are close to yourself, try to help him face the reality and enhance his self-confidence. When a person is strong inside, there is no need to decorate himself with lies.
If you are an unfamiliar person, there is no need to carry this burden. Sooner or later, he will be swallowed up by his lies. I've suffered from lying, and when I mix it up, I converge.
Finally, the liar will be difficult to change for a while, and be prepared to stay away at any time.
You can't win unless you introspect. A person who dares to cheat you and reverse black and white must have calculated that you can't deal with him at all. He feels that the more he does this, the more competitive he will be. Unless your cognitive level is improved, through the process of introspection, you can see that you can grasp the cognitive blank of human weakness and improve your understanding of his weakness. Slowly, you will know a rule. The more I like to lie, the more I turn black and white. In fact, the weakness is much greater than that of the more upright and honest man. Moreover, because there are fewer opportunities to suffer losses than others and lack the necessary experience of tempering and taking responsibility, this weakness will continue to strengthen over time until he simply ignores it.
When you know this person's weakness like the back of your hand, once you encounter his cognitive level and important information blank areas, you only need to use his weakness step by step and naturally lead him to a place that seems attractive to him, but in fact, his weakness can completely kill his own absolute cognitive blank and information blank. You don't even have to do anything, you can make him lie more and more, turn black and white upside down, and find fault more and more.
For example, a liar who lies all day, turns black and white upside down, takes advantage of the dual advantages of the greatest right to speak and depriving leaders of the right to know, with the intention of making the team filled with smoke and dying. This is where he gains both fame and fortune. Once the environment in which the right to speak and the right to know are increasingly challenged does not converge, I want to continue to do it, using its information and cognitive gaps again and again, so that the more he lies, the more he turns black and white, the more greedy he is, and the more he pulls himself into a situation that his weaknesses cannot cope with. Finally, at the most dangerous corner, he knew that if he lied again and turned black and white, he would find his teeth everywhere. Finally, he can only take advantage of some information advantages and the advantages he still has.
The more you meet people who lie and turn black and white, the more you test your ability to grasp human nature, seek truth from facts and act according to law. Besides, there is nothing you can do except observe or avoid.