1, stimulate boys' fighting spirit. Boys were small hunters in ancient times, so mothers should learn to cultivate their sons' wolf nature and avoid being spoiled. As the saying goes, a loving mother often loses her child, which has some truth. If you want to cultivate a boy's fighting spirit, don't be too good in life, meet her various needs, wear a lot of clothes before freezing, pick it up quickly after a few steps, and want all the toys you want. You meet the needs of children unconditionally, which will kill the boys' fighting spirit.

2. Give boys appropriate pressure. No matter how good the family conditions are, let your son feel that it is not easy for you to make money, and the family is short of money every day, which will stimulate the boys' fighting spirit. Of course, no matter how poor your family is, don't let your children see you in a mess. What you want to show your son is positive, optimistic, strong and smart. Give the boy a little pressure and tell him the situation at home. He needs to study hard and get angry.

3. Be a mother. There is no mother in the world who doesn't love her son, but the mother should hide her love for her son, let the boy experience setbacks, face difficulties and challenges himself, and don't take care of him everywhere. How can you grow into a towering tree without experiencing wind and rain? Many times, it is not you who take care of your son, but your son who takes care of you. When the boy reaches puberty, the mother should gradually learn to quit the boy's world and let the boy return to the man's camp.