1. Parents' parenting experience
I often sigh: how time flies. Babies who were toddlers a few years ago can now stride happily into the kindergarten every morning. Preschool is the happiest time in a child's life. I hope that children can continue to complete this childhood journey happily and sunshine. In the small class life in the past year, I am very happy to see the children in chenchen happily integrate into the class group, have the best partners, and bravely meet every learning challenge. At the same time, some experiences are summarized.
First, accompany the children to go to bed early and get up early, and cultivate good work and rest habits.
The book Family Education by China educator, child psychologist and child educator Mr. Chen Heqin made me deeply realize the importance of family education. Among them, helping children form good work and rest habits is the primary task of parents.
Good work and rest habits can not only promote children's growth and development, but also ensure that children have a good mental outlook the next day. Every night when the alarm clock rings at nine o'clock, I will accompany the children to turn off the lights and sleep; At seven o'clock in the morning, the children get up on time with the music. In this day-to-day companionship, chenchen gradually developed a regular life routine, slept soundly and was in good health.
Second, accompany children to read books and newspapers and cultivate good reading habits.
The research on children's psychology shows that extensive reading can not only enrich people's knowledge and broaden people's horizons, but also open people's wisdom, cultivate people's sentiments and purify people's hearts. I read various picture books with my children since I was a child. Children are holding books and listening to lively and interesting stories, and they gradually like reading. In the day-to-day relationship, chenchen has initially developed a good habit of reading, and books have become his inseparable friends.
Third, have fun with children and cultivate good exercise habits.
Playing is a child's nature, and children can exercise and improve their abilities in all aspects by playing happily. On weekends, I run with my children in the square, play with paper airplanes in the park, catch butterflies in the grass, and break corn in the vegetable garden ... I run with my children in the sun, get close to nature, make more friends, and try to make him a confident and lively boy.
Children are little flowers that need to be cared for and grow up day by day under the nourishment of sunshine and rain. As parents, we should accompany with our heart, water with love and wait for the flowers to bloom!
2. Parents' parenting experience
Family is a child's first school, and parents are a child's first teacher. Family education plays an important role in the healthy growth of children, and I have been exploring the way of parenting. The nine-layer combination starts from the foundation soil; A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
Education starts with small things, and parents' words and deeds have a edifying effect on children. It is upright and does not command; His body is not straight, although he disobeys. In children's education, I always ask myself to be decent in words and deeds, and to be one of knowing and doing. Children are the mirrors of their parents, and their behavior reflects their education.
Wood is straight with rope, and gold is sharp.
Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang. Freedom without rules is laissez-faire, rules without freedom are control, and children who follow the rules are more free. Family rules education should be based on freedom and cultivate children's spirit of freedom. In our family's rule education, children will be involved in the formulation of rules, which will help children actively construct the meaning and connotation of rules, rather than passively accept them; On the other hand, this process can also make children deeply understand that the purpose of establishing rules is to ensure freedom, not to limit freedom. Children's freedom should have a bottom line. Having a good upbringing, knowing the boundaries between yourself and others, and knowing how to respect others are the cornerstones of a child's healthy growth.
Where to find the pleasure of reading, count plum blossoms.
Reading gives people happiness, glory and talent. Books are the ladder of human progress. With the proper assistance of parents, children can walk faster and farther on the climbing road. I like reading with my children very much, especially China's classical poems and songs, which are not only catchy to read, but also rich in profound truth. As the saying goes, children can improve their self-restraint in books and feel the real happiness brought by books.
Education is a century-long plan of our country, and it can't be done overnight. Only family education, school education and social education can form a joint force to better promote the healthy growth of children. As parents, we will always ride the wind and waves on the road of education.
3. Parents' parenting experience
Parents are children's teachers, so parents should pay attention to the details of their children's daily life, set an example and make a good start. Let me talk about my parenting experience: accompany my children to study and create an atmosphere for them to study. Don't judge teachers and others in front of children, learn and exchange children's educational methods and experiences with other children's parents, and be a caring and tolerant parent.
Children will experience many "critical moments" and are not as carefree as we think. We should not only help the child through this period, but also help her digest and understand the emotions of fear, anger, disappointment, embarrassment and sadness. We should first listen to the child, determine her feelings, and then act as strategists, so that the child will learn to communicate with others in difficulties and be more independent.
Usually, when children do things, I pay attention to let them develop all kinds of good habits. For example, at home, I always take my children to the bathroom to wash their hands before eating or eating fruit. Don't watch TV while eating, don't joke. I tell my children to concentrate on whatever they do. At home, children know that they should wash their hands with water after going to the toilet, put their shoes on the ground neatly before going to bed, and put them on after getting up.
Reading can open children's wisdom and enrich their spiritual world. I bought many books for my children when they were young (cloth books, unbreakable books, pop-up book, wall charts and various picture books). When the child can sit for six months, we start reading together. After we were two years old, we went to the children's library almost every weekend. She likes to choose a lot of books and always "returns with a full load". In this way, children's interest in reading is gradually cultivated. Reading can cultivate children's language ability and cognitive level, and can also cultivate children's good habits and personality. Parent-child reading can make my children and I have more common language, better understand them, enhance the parent-child relationship between us and reduce my direct preaching to children. But to educate children through reading. Of course, this is an ongoing process.
Of course, educating children requires the concerted efforts of the whole family, Qi Xin and Qi Xin, and at the same time, we should also cooperate with kindergarten teachers to realize co-education in their homes and make children develop better in all aspects.
I am a stay-at-home mom. Although the process of raising children is hard and confusing, it is more joy and happiness. I enjoyed growing up with my children. Children are a gift from heaven. The above is just my personal shallow parenting experience.
4. Parents' parenting experience
When a child comes into this world, it is actually like a blank sheet of paper. How do you shape him? What can he look like? For example, to cultivate good living habits, parents and children must be consistent first. First, he used tableware consciously when eating, so I didn't feed it again. I eat all by myself, and I don't waste a grain of rice. Secondly, I pay more attention to the quality of children's sleep at night. Our family washes at 8 o'clock every night, goes to bed at 8: 30 and turns off the lights. Create a sleeping environment, because good sleep can make children energetic the next day and help them grow and develop better. Fiona Fang cannot be made without rules. Although home is the most relaxing place for children, there are rules in everything. For example, when you want to play, you can take out all the toys in the room and cherish them. If you don't play, you must sort it neatly. I told the children to pack their things and the toys would lie comfortably in their "home". 2 1 day can form a good habit. As long as you persist with your children, you will see good results.
Finally, as long as Chen Zehang does something that surprises me, I always praise him generously, make him happy, make me happy, give my children satisfaction and gradually become more confident. As a mother, I will work harder, and sometimes he will praise me (mom, you are amazing, mom, this is so interesting). This kind of communication is really good and the parent-child relationship is more harmonious.
In the process of accompanying children to grow up, there are joys and sorrows. Every time my son says, "Mom, I want to kiss you. I like my mother best." My heart is warm.
The child is growing up. I think he learned a lot of skills at home and in kindergarten. Our parents should set an example and do what they say. Set a good example for children, everything is for their physical and mental health. Thanks to the teachers for their careful care in the garden. I hope the kindergarten life behind Chen Zehang will be happier. Make more good friends.
5. Parents' parenting experience
Tagore once wrote in a little poem: My child, you brought to my heart the sound of wind and water, the silent secret of flowers, the dream of clouds, and the silent gaze of the sky at dawn. Yes, when our life meets children, it is always so wonderful and full of expectations! However, more importantly, on this road, we can better examine ourselves, reflect on ourselves and meet better ourselves! A grain of sand sees a world and a drop of water sees the whole sun, but my sharing is only a small and true story, but in such a story, I can see myself, my child and his school. I always remember this sentence: family is the most important place in life, and it is also the cradle of people's real birth! Parents are the children's initial world and the children's longest teachers; Therefore, the importance of family education is self-evident, and as a parent for the first time, I will do my best on the road of parenting, take good care of it, and concentrate on designing a road to happiness for my children, so that they can stretch freely and stroll leisurely on this road.