1, find out the ins and outs of things and determine the attitude of children: children sometimes don't think that their communication with children can be defined as bullying. Seriously, many adults don't necessarily know the difference. Therefore, if you have anything, you must first ask your child's opinion on this matter. The attitude of children is very important, which determines the way parents fight back. If the child thinks that he is really bullied and doesn't know what to do, then besides telling the child to stay away from each other, he should also take a series of practical actions to protect the child; If children think that they are not bullied, they should tell them in a gentle way that even friends can't invade themselves and clearly point out the places that need protection. When the other party does this again, be sure to tell the teacher.

2. Check whether the child is injured in time: As a parent, even if the ability is great, it is impossible to protect the child 24 hours a day, let alone protect the child for a lifetime. The most important thing is to know whether the child has been hurt mentally and physically, to what extent, whether he is afraid in his young mind, and how to make up for his mental trauma.

3. According to the practice of children and parents in the incident, adopt different solutions: if the other children and parents directly apologize, admit their attitude and sincerely admit their mistakes. Encourage children to accept each other's apologies and try to be good friends; If the other parents and children are unwilling to admit their mistakes, parents don't care. Resolutely give children justice through teachers and themselves; If the other person's children and parents are posturing, it's no use talking about it next time. The next time you meet the other child bullying your own child, you should start defending yourself. If the strength is wide, then stay away.

4. Teach children the ability to resist: Sometimes children's resistance is not taught, but love. Only those who are loved are fearless. Parents can't dogmatically teach their children how to do everything, they can only believe that their children have the ability to deal with problems. Take good care of children and guide them correctly. Children learn slowly if they don't read much. When children are 0 to 3 years old and encounter toy robbery, they should support them correctly. I don't mean to stop playing with other people's toys, but to see if I can find a way to exchange them. It doesn't mean that parents rush out when others come to grab toys, but it depends on the child's true attitude towards this toy and guides the child to deal with this problem by himself. Little by little, children will naturally learn to resist, so when encountering real events, you must trust your child's judgment.