Teacher Zhu Yongxin has a very popular saying: "A person's spiritual development history is his reading history." In the book, Mr. Jiang questioned this sentence. He said: "A person's spiritual development history is his reading history. This statement is untrue. How old children have not studied? Does he have no spiritual development? Some people gallop on the grassland, but doesn't he have a national spirit? The history of a person's spiritual development lies in its practical history! But as a teacher, I deeply feel the importance of reading. Three-year-olds have basically mastered the oral expression of their mother tongue. Accompanied by parents, listening to stories can cultivate reading interest, stimulate language development, and thus cultivate children's good behavior habits. Of course, different ages should choose different books. For example, What's New in Tooth Street tells the story of two bad guys, Huck and Dick, who live in Tooth Street. They dig holes in their teeth, build houses on their teeth, and hide a lot of food in the storeroom. They even built a swimming pool and wanted to build an office to rent to other bad people. Then the dentist (that is, toothpaste) appeared, and they cleaned the tooth street. Finally, Huck and Dick were hanged when the dentist filled their teeth. A small picture book, a big truth, can skillfully attract children's reading interest through stories, cultivate children to develop good hygiene habits, and then affect children's behavior habits. There are many similar stories. If the child has bad behavior habits, we keep telling him that the language is not good, and maybe the child will feel disgusted. It may be a very good way to tell children appropriate stories at their current age, nourish their hearts and correct their bad behavior habits by telling stories over and over again. In the story of "Magic Toothpaste", when children encounter some problems in life, Mr. Miyanishi uses stories and games to solve them with them. In daily life, as parents, we don't need to reprimand our children through language and harsh behavior. We can change their behavior in another way.
Telling interesting stories to children is better than reasoning in early childhood. The Little Mouse and the Big Tiger tells us how a "little mouse" and a "tall and strong" big tiger became good friends. This story is more suitable for children over 4 years old, because they have started the collective life in kindergarten and will encounter similar problems in getting along with their friends. Telling children interesting stories can help them learn how to get along with their friends. Teach children to cherish friendship.
In addition, in class management, I often meet some special children who are too active to concentrate and sit down in class. A special child must come from a special family, so we must attach importance to home-school cooperation. In the communication with parents, I will encourage parents to spend more time with their children. Through parent-child reading together, not only can parents and children have feelings, but they can also have deeper communication with children ... The child's behavior will gradually change, because he can sit down and study quietly, which is the change of reading. There is a saying that goes like this. No matter who you are, you will meet. You are a parent who loves reading. You must have a child who loves reading. The influence of reading is mutual, affecting not only children but also parents. This is the charm of reading, which shows that reading is very important.
? Teachers must care and love children. When you treat students with humiliation and rudeness, students have learned how to treat others. Equality can only be created by equality, dignity can only be won by dignity, arrogance can only cultivate arrogance, and autocracy can only breed more autocracy. When you nourish your child with proper love, the child will quietly give you the so-called child's love. Of course, while loving, education also needs criticism and punishment. But punishment is not corporal punishment, but severe and even necessary punishment, which is not contradictory to giving students dignity at all, but also the embodiment of love. Just as love is not indulgence, strictness is not rudeness and humiliation. A primary school teacher in Zhuzhou County punished the child for standing for a while because he was late, which led the father of the police station to send someone to arrest him and shut him up for seven hours. We can learn from it.
As a teacher, we must be more patient in the face of a group of innocent and lovely children. Every child is the whole world of a family. When facing special children, we need to find ways to use our brains and conduct art education. When we don't know what to do, we should learn from the excellent teachers around us, learn how to manage the class, read more books, constantly improve ourselves, make ourselves more attractive, upgrade professional courses, prepare enough lessons, make the class more attractive … Let children fall in love with each of our classes. Mobilizing children's enthusiasm and doing a good job of home-school co-education may reduce some unnecessary things.
There is a saying that the essence of education is: a tree shakes another tree, a cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul awakens another soul. Who says our children are not sensible? Who says our children are not grateful? -the premise is that you have paid.