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Some parents are too strict in disciplining their children and reprimand them loudly. What harm will this kind of education do?
Parents are too strict in disciplining their children, reprimanding them loudly, and often losing their temper with their children will make them timid. Sometimes I don't even understand why my parents lose their temper. I suspect that I am unpopular or my parents don't love me. I think I can't do anything well, and I seriously lack a sense of belonging. I am prone to inferiority or even cowardice, which affects my healthy development. If an introverted child often makes a hullabaloo about, he will feel inferior in the future, feel that he can't do anything without self-confidence in front of others, and make the child have no confidence in life.

If you yell at naughty children, it will inspire them to resist. Such children will often confront adults and are not afraid of you. It also forms that he will yell at others in his later life, and it will also form a vicious circle. Everyone lives in different environments and receives different education. Yelling won't solve the fundamental problem. Parents are children's first teachers and role models. Living in a violent family, parents always use temper tantrums and violence to solve problems. Children will become very violent when they grow up, and they will also use temper tantrums to solve problems, thus affecting interpersonal relationships.

Such repressed education makes children feel that their parents can't give them warmth and love, and they can't feel their parents' love. Children can't express their pain or intimacy with their parents, which makes them feel pain in life and study. Affect children's self-confidence, not confident in themselves. When children believe their parents' "criticism", they will have self-denial, really feel sorry for themselves and lose confidence in themselves. If parents want to communicate effectively with their children, they must first adjust their emotions. Only when they have good emotions can they have a good way to educate and lead their children to grow up. If children are often reprimanded by their parents in public, it is easy to form an inferiority complex and introverted personality when they grow up. Even if they have the consciousness of self-optimization, I'm afraid it will take a long transformation process, which will seriously affect their work and life, and they will pay a huge price for it.