1. First of all, parents need to understand that being naughty is a child's nature and an act of exploring desire. Being scolded can't be stopped immediately. What is common to adults is novel to babies. So don't always say "his skin is dying" and don't label your child "ADHD", because these words and labels are negative psychological hints for your child. The more you talk, the more children will develop in this direction.

2. In view of the naughty phenomenon of children, we need to patiently analyze the reasons behind it and prescribe the right medicine. Generally, children are naughty for the following reasons: experience their own strength: children live in their own small world before they can express themselves, and passively wait for the arrangements made by adults. But after the age of three, children have learned to express themselves. He can ask you questions on his own initiative, and he can go anywhere he wants without your hug. Moreover, he will find that his words and deeds will also cause other people's emotional reactions, so he likes to influence others' emotions by making trouble. The angrier you are, the happier he is, because he thinks he can make you angry.

3. Attract adults' attention: If parents don't pay enough attention, for example, if you are busy with other things, they will attract adults' attention by showing themselves, but their behavior of attracting adults becomes "naughty" in adults' eyes.

4, energy nowhere to vent: Because the child is too young, for safety reasons, we usually only let him go to a few places, at most let him stay at home, but he likes to explore everywhere at this age, and the limited space makes their energy nowhere to vent, so many naughty behaviors are actually the result of children's energy venting in our opinion.

To find out the cause of children's mischief, it is necessary to prescribe the right medicine. First of all, parents should try not to stop some naughty behaviors of their children during this period. We can give our children a chance to show their skills on the premise of ensuring their safety. Secondly, some naughty behaviors of children are also manifestations of strong curiosity about things. At this time, parents can seize the opportunity to pass on the corresponding knowledge to their children, satisfy their curiosity and thirst for knowledge, and tell them what they can and cannot do. This will not only satisfy the child's curiosity, but also enable him to acquire new knowledge and form good behavior habits.

Finally, parents can also create some reasonable "naughty" opportunities for their children, that is, let them show themselves freely without restrictions. For example, you can take your children to the playground, or play together and build blocks together. This can not only give full play to children's energy, but also exercise children's practical ability and enhance parent-child feelings.