Differences in educational concepts are common in many families. Therefore, many people ask that it is basically impossible for couples to educate in the same way and do whatever they do. I think we must do a few things. First of all, educational ideas and methods can be different, but they must have the same goal and the same destination. Don't let one want him to get good grades and the other want him to get poor grades. In this case, it is not a question of different educational ideas, but that two people simply want to train different people, which is wrong. Secondly, educational ideas can be different and educational methods can be different, but two people must negotiate well and never disagree in the process of education.

I believe many parents know that even if they educate their children at home, it is basically impossible to say that parents' education methods are the same. Maybe the father has his own way of education and the mother has her own way of education, so we don't expect the education methods to be exactly the same, but we must do the following.

First of all, education methods and educational concepts can be different, but the end point of two people must be the same. The educational purpose of two people must be the same. Only when the purpose of education is the same can you finally get where you want and finally train your children into such people. What's the use of the same education if two people have different purposes?

Therefore, when educating children, parents of both sides must discuss what kind of person I want to train my children and what kind of requirements I want them to meet. This must be made clear. Two people have the same goal, although the education methods are different, but the direction of progress is always the same, so they will succeed. However, if two people have different educational purposes, a forward and a backward will make the child stagnate.

Secondly, education methods can be different, but parents of both sides must discuss one thing. It is wrong to always switch back and forth between the two methods in the process of educating children. This way, the child will only not know who to listen to. Is it better to listen to their father or their mother? It seems wrong to listen to anyone.

Therefore, division of labor and cooperation is very good, such as using mother's education method in study and father's education method in life, but it is not good to cross the two methods when studying. It will only make children feel at a loss, and it will only make children feel confused, which is very unfavorable for their growth.