A loving father can't teach a dutiful son, and a virtuous gentleman can't die a loyal minister.
The first half of the sentence is the same as the common people's proverb "A dutiful son comes out under a stick".
Under the stick comes a dutiful son.
Zeng Shen was beaten by his father with a big stick.
Zeng Shen, a native of Nanwucheng (now Pingyi, Shandong Province), was a thinker and Confucian during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, and was a proud disciple of Confucius in his later years. He was listed as one of the seventy-two sages, and later generations honored him as a "sage of Buddhism", which was as famous as the Confucius Temple as Yan Yuan, Shu Sheng and others.
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Shuoyuan, compiled by Liu Xiang, the imperial clan of the Western Han Dynasty, recorded anecdotes from the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period to the Western Han Dynasty, and used a lot of historical materials, which has high literary value.
"On the Three Swords of Yuan Juan" records: "Ceng Zi picked melons and broke their roots by mistake. How angry Zeng was. Help him hit them with a big stick. Ceng Zi is in my place. For a while, she was Sue. After she fainted, she walked into Zeng Jun and said. " We have offended adults. Adults have taught us hard. Aren't we sick? Then, leave the room, play the piano and sing, let Zeng Han listen, and hope he knows its dullness.
Confucius was very angry and said to his teacher. "No, too.
Because I used to feel innocent, I thanked Confucius.
Confucius said, don't ask about the past. Confucius said that there are things that are smooth and smooth, and do them. Probably not around here. Ask to kill. You might understand.
Wait a minute, get a big one.
Therefore, Qu did not commit the crime of fatherless, and she did not lose her filial piety.
Now, whether you are angry or not, you can't avoid destroying your body and killing your father. Which is more unfilial? Isn't your son of heaven evil? Killing the people of the son of heaven, such as the crime of the west? I once heard, Yue, that this is a great sin.
Thank you for creating Confucius.
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Translated into vernacular Chinese, it means that I mowed the grass in Gua Tian and accidentally cut the vine root of melon.
After being seen by his father Zeng Duo (Ceng Dian, word Duo), he cried the fire and flew into a rage. He picked up a big wooden stick, hit Zeng Shen, knocked him to the ground, fainted, and woke up after a while.
Zeng Shen immediately stood up and asked modestly and solemnly. "I have sinned against my father just now. You tell me forcefully. Won't get hurt again? " After retirement, he went back to his room to play the piano and sing, let his father listen to his songs, and wanted to know his health.
Whipped by his father.
Hearing this, Confucius said to his disciples, "Zeng Shen has come, don't accept him."
"Zeng Shen felt that he was innocent and asked Confucius.
Confucius said this. "Haven't you ever heard of a son named Shun? Obey his father and call him when he needs it. However, when his father tried to kill Shun, his goal was not achieved.
The stick hit Shun and waited. The stick hit Shun and ran away. In order to avoid father getting angry.
Now you give your body to your father until he loses his temper, stay put, and make his father unjust with your own death. What could be more unfilial? Aren't you the son of heaven? What is the crime of killing the people of the son of heaven? "When I heard these words, I woke up like a dream." My sin is too great! "So I immediately went to see Confucius and apologized for my mistake.
Confucius gives lectures
According to the traditional concept of ancient China society, it is always right for a father to beat his son. "You teach me to die without being unfaithful; There is a folk proverb that "the father dies and the son dies, and the son dies and the son is unfilial". It is wrong for a father to beat his son to death for no reason.
Confucius did not criticize Ceng Dian by name. He said, "All the people in the world are the people of the son of heaven. He warned, "If a father kills his son for a trivial matter, what should he bear?"? "Nowadays, it has become a common phenomenon for parents to spoil their children.
However, if you just pamper and spoil, the possibility of giving birth to a "bear baby" is very high, and the probability is also very high.
This is too much.
Proper stick education is still necessary, otherwise it is difficult for children to remember their mistakes.
The proverb says, "Good words hurt three winters, while bad words hurt June.".
"In the process of educating children, praise more and criticize less; Not affirmation, not negation; Praise a little and be sarcastic; It is better to praise it highly than to blame it.
Let every child feel the joy of growing up in the evaluation.
Teacher Confucius' educational philosophy has been more than 2000 years, and there is still something worth learning for future generations.
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