My grandmother doesn't teach Juran and Moran for two reasons. First, grandma is old and just wants to be quiet. She has no intention of teaching a child with her heart. She taught Ming Lan carefully because she lost her mother when she was a child and felt that Xiao Minglan was poor and no one was hurt, so she was brought to her side to raise her. The second is to avoid unnecessary conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Rulan is the eldest lady's favorite little daughter, and Moran is the favorite daughter of Hong Sheng and Lin Xiaoniang. Grandma is a person with clear rewards and punishments, and it is inevitable that there will be punishment in the process of teaching children. The big lady and Lin Xiaoniang are bound to blame grandma. We can also combine the specific circumstances for analysis:

1. Moran is born of Lin Lingshuang, and Mrs. Sheng has a problem with Lin Lingshuang. Mrs. Sheng made a condition that if Lin Lingshuang entered the Sheng family, she would not see her again and would not raise Changfeng and Moran. Mrs. Fang said Moran was smart, so why not choose Moran to have children? The old lady replied: "once bitten by a snake, I am afraid of those smart girls;" They are so preoccupied that I haven't figured it out yet. Their stomachs have turned seventeen or eighteen turns, so it is better to wait for a while to save trouble; Besides, she's not really stupid. Didn't you say that when you heard her talking about her mother in front of the Buddha that day, she would miss her dead mother, so she was a caring child; Just her. "When it comes to Dengzhou in the play, Sheng Gonglang once wanted Mo Ran to serve the old lady, because Mo Ran was the pride of Sheng Gonglang at that time and intended to give Mo Ran a chance. As a result, Mrs. Sheng didn't like it, and things were forgotten.

The old lady likes Ming Lan, not because she is smart and sensible, but because she is honest enough. She never hides anything from the old lady. She will say anything and dare to say anything. This is the old lady who likes Ming Lan more and more and is willing to bring her up wholeheartedly. And that's what Moran would never do.

When the old lady wants to accept her next child, Juran's three views have basically taken shape. At that time, she didn't want to go to the old lady's side. She always thought that the old lady didn't like her and tried to avoid her. However, after listening to all kinds of benefits and vested interests at your fingertips, you will pretend to be considerate. Although the old lady looks clever at Rulan, she is afraid of being a big lady, and she doesn't like Rulan on the surface.